Erotic Massage

Guide to Erotic and Sensual Massage

22.08.2012 | By: Alex F.

A massage is an appropriate way to relax after making love or to arouse yourself in front of him. How to do it?

 

 

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An sensual massage is a very important component of your sexual life. (Photoxpress)

 

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In the physical act of love, a massage is just slightly more intense lovemaking. A massage is also one of the ways to explore your body. It can be pleasant if the following conditions are fulfilled:

- you have to relax,
- you have to focus on what you feel,
- you have to communicate with the person that massages you.

Sensual massage tip #1: Take your time

Before a massage make sure that you have enough time. If you can’t spare at least half an hour, it is best to leave it till later; don’t give or get a massage in a hurry.

Choose an appropriate place: a bed or thick rug. Check the room’s temperature, if it is warm enough. Don’t turn on a strong light. In comparison to making love, it is impossible for partner to massage each other simultaneously because it would limit their movements and they couldn’t relax.

Sensual massage tip #2: Focus on your sensations

The person who gets a massage should be naked, but that isn’t a condition for the person who gives a massage. Make your own decision. If your partner is dressed while massaging you, it is probably easier to focus on your sensations. At the beginning, sexual organs shouldn’t be touched. Although it is unimportant which body part you choose to massage first, it is best if you start at limbs.

Sensual massage tip #3: Start with hands

Start massaging the partner’s hands from the outside, by travelling with your thumb along the full length of the tendons. Press hard. Continue massaging palms, particularly the fleshy part underneath the thumb. Then continue massaging the hand by using kneading movements to loosen the muscles fibres.

Sensual massage tip #4: Continue massaging feet

Massage the feet only from the side, first towards the middle and then around the heel. Continue massaging the calves, which you can knead with your whole hand, up to the thighs. The thighs are also massaged with the whole hand in opposite directions so you manipulate all muscles. You partner lies on his/her abdomen and you kneel above him/her, with your legs above his/her thighs. With your thumb and even the whole hand, alternate the massage of the area around the kidneys and waist, but always in an upward direction. Use your both thumbs to stroke your partner’s spine several times and press in the area around the vertebrae. Continue massaging the shoulders and neck  and devote a lot of attention to the vertebrae in the neck.

Sensual massage tip #5: What to do with the buttocks?

Return to the buttocks. Manipulate the whole muscle tissue by pressing it. Do a sequence of short and light strokes with the side of your palm. Now your partner turns on his/her back and you can massage his/her abdomen in the way a doctor examines a patients – with gentle touching of the bowel.

Sensual massage tip #6: Through the breasts to the shoulders

Return to the neck without touching the breasts and massage the shoulders with your palms. Your partner should lead you during the massage and tell you what he/she likes: “more to the right”, more to the left”, “slower”, “stronger”, etc.

Explore each other’s bodies through a massage

A sensual massage is pleasant as well as informative for your partner because it reveals to both of you how sensitive particular parts of the body are.

Then change roles. You have been warned already at the beginning not to touch sexual organs. The reason is very simple: they are caressed and not massaged. However, the choice is yours whether you want to gently caress the genitals or breasts. Do it in passing and don’t exaggerate as regards sensual touching.

Take a hot bath

Prior to a massage, we recommend that you take a hot bath in combination with scented bath salt because it relaxes the whole body. Some people don’t like a direct contact of bare fingers on their skin. In that case, you can use a lotion or powder, or you can give a massage through a light fabric. Although you can massage your partner without thinking of sex, the logical continuation is caressing the partner’s erogenous zones solely because of the pleasure that the massage offers. Thus, a massage is perfect to prepare you for making love.

 

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