BDSM

Erotic Strangling

13.09.2010 | By: A. B.

A couple may do many things at the height of sexual passion ... even the so-called erotic strangling.

 

 

erotic strangling

The daring sexual practice of gentle erotic strangling requires you to be very, very careful! (Photoxpress)

 

You can find more advice on BDSM in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

 

Gentle strangling

If nowhere else, you saw the extreme and daring move of erotic strangling in a porn movie, where a man grabbed a woman by the throat and wouldn’t let her breathe for some time (literally taking her breath away). All this happened during intercourse, in the height of passion, when the woman really enjoyed it. The move was short at first, then longer and stronger, all the way to an amazing orgasm. The lack of oxygen during intercourse obviously creates additional pleasure in the female body. This only happens with certain individuals who want to do this and really want to try this sexual practice for themselves. Erotic strangling can be performed during oral intercourse as well, even during deep throat, when there’s not enough oxygen to begin with.

Before squeezing her neck, be sure to turn her on

Some women absolutely adore being strangled. Such women undoubtedly also like rougher intercourse. If you come upon a woman who has never tried this but secretly wants to, you have to use sense and go slowly. The precondition is that she’s turned on by her partner. He shouldn’t suggest strangulation out of the blue and with no foreplay. Erotic strangling must be an addition to passionate sexuality. It has to be performed perhaps just before an orgasm, or even during an orgasm.

Start slowly, gently and for shorter periods. Squeeze her neck gently for about five seconds. Wait for the response and repeat. If you see she likes it, squeeze harder and longer. If she encourages you to do it, be even rougher, but not too much, so as not to hurt her throat or even suffocate her! Let’s get things straight, do this during the sexual act itself or when licking her crotch. You can also do it during very passionate intercourse, when the clothes are flying in the air and you just can't get enough of each other.

 

Erotic strangling with a scarf or a tie

We hope that no serial killers see themselves in this article. We only wish to present a practice that’s a bit more daring but very interesting. Quite a few couples successfully perform it. Instead of your hands, you can also use a scarf and a tie. You should, of course, be gentle. You should only wrap it around the neck and unable normal breathing for a few seconds. A belt is also appropriate. You can squeeze it as much as the partner likes. But don’t forget about safety and the possibility of injury! The situation can change, which means that the woman can also strangle the man during intercourse. It’s good if a man is really turned on for this - he should be right before an orgasm, so he is willing to go much further than otherwise. 

Erotic strangling during masturbation

Surely you still remember Michael Hutchence, the singer of the very popular band Inxs, who loved autoerotic asphyxiation. When they found him dead in his hotel room in 1997, they found out he went overboard with a solo session and suffocated himself with a belt during masturbation. We mention this unfortunate event because we don’t want any of you to get hurt. If you like being strangled during masturbation, use some common sense. If you’re an extremist and are turned on by being squeezed really strongly, don’t literally hang yourself. Tie the belt or the rope to the door handle and gradually pull tighter. Do it as much as you want, but please don’t hurt yourself.

 

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