9 erotic accessories every woman should have

If you want to enrich your sexual life with an extra erotic surge, consider getting the following sexual toys.

 

 

The vibrator is the most commonly bought and used erotic accessory. (PhotoXpress)

 

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Female writer Allison Young thinks that every woman should use the following erotic elements:

Erotic accessories #1: Pillow

That’s right, a correctly positioned pillow or a cushion can reveal pleasures of new sexual positions and spice up your favourite old positions. You can place it under the pelvis during the missionary position or between the legs when you’re on your side, meaning the spoons sexual position.

Erotic accessories #2: Vibrator

The vibrator is the most commonly bought and used erotic accessory. You can use it for your private sexual pleasure or with your partner. Expert Laura Berman discovered that women who use a vibrator are supposedly more content with their partners, have a higher libido and find it easier to have orgasms. If you’re a novice when it comes to buying a vibrator, you can start with a small one with a pleasant shape and pattern.

Erotic accessories #3: Lubricant

Not only does lubricant enable easier sliding of an erotic accessory or the penis, but it also prolongs intercourse and makes many positions easier because the vagina won’t get dry in any case due to the use of lubricant. You have to try quite a few types of lubricant to find the one that suits you. If you’re worried about allergies, the best choice would be the ones that are water-based, while silicon lubricants last longer. You can also buy such products that make you tingle and give you a warm feeling. You can also buy organic and natural lubricants.

Erotic accessories #4: Fun accessories

Whether we’re talking about casual accessories like feathers for tickling or whipped cream, or wilder accessories like handcuffs and a whip, fun accessories undoubtedly contribute to sexual arousal.

Erotic accessories #5: Quality erotic literature

We can never know too much about sexuality, so quality erotic literature, like an interesting novel or specialised books, can be a very good accessory. You can read the books alone or together with your partner and they can also start up an interesting conversation.

Erotic accessories #6: Performing Kegel exercises

Kegel exercises really strengthen and tighten the vaginal muscles. The stronger the muscles, the more intense the orgasms will be. Exercising these muscles is very simple and it enhances blood flow and vaginal moisture, which leads to an enhanced sexual desire and greater arousal. You can contract the muscles even during intercourse. This will give you and your partner more pleasure. The contractions also stimulate a hidden part of the clitoris. Kegel exercises are easily learned during urination.

Erotic accessories #7: A CD with pleasant sexual rhythms

We all know that appropriate music can set the tone for a romantic evening. That’s why it’s important to also have a CD which will bring you into a sexual mood in your drawer of erotic accessories, regardless of your taste in music.

Erotic accessories #8: Sexy lingerie

Just as it’s important to choose appropriate footwear, sexy lingerie is also a good choice to make you feel seductive and sexy. Sexy doesn’t always mean expensive. Put on something that makes you feel self-confident, comfortable and seductive. You can choose from various items of lingerie, which will transform you into a sweet seductress, a naughty vixen or an elegant goddess.

Erotic accessories #9: Erotic material

Erotica can turn you on, keep you turned on or enhance your imagination. The term ‘erotic material’ contains everything which enhances your arousal and fantasy, whether it’s an erotic movie, erotic story, pornographic recording or an erotic novel.

 

Read more about sex and sexuality in our Lover's Guide.

 

 

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