Find Out if She Is Cheating on You!

7.09.2012 | By: T. G.

Do you suspect that she is cheating on you but you do not know how to prove it? We offer advice on how you can make sure about her (un)faithfulness!

If you think that she is cheating on you will catch her sooner or later. (Photoxpress)

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Trust and intimacy are crucial for a good relationship and cheating hurts both parties. Cheating can also be a sign that these ingredients are missing or they are just neglected. If you suspect she is cheating on you, the cracks will be evident.

The best way to find out if she is cheating on you is to think about your behavior. This should give you all the necessary signs. Is your work more important, are you on the road a lot, do you dedicate more of your time to watching sports on television and playing video games than to spending it with her? It is easiest to point the finger, but if she is cheating on you, you have to accept some responsibility. Maybe your behavior is the key factor which made her be unfaithful.

Why is she cheating on you and why do people cheat in general?

Cheating is usually a mixture of two things: physical (sexual) and emotional needs. It is usually the consequence of a conflict between physical and emotional needs. We all know that men are not monogamous by nature. But let’s not pretend – the same applies to women. Monogamy is something we consent to only if other conditions are met – stability, emotional connection, physical satisfaction, communication, good parenting and financial security. If not enough of these conditions are fulfilled, the motivation for faithfulness decreases. People are natural opportunists and are always looking for something better. Regardless of the feeling that you may have already found a good partner, you want another good one for which you are convinced that will be even better. It is about loving yourself, weighing between the feelings of loving and being loved. As if we were following the principle that ''if you do not love someone enough, you look for someone else who will love you even more'', but this is undoubtedly a mental paradox.

It is therefore best to stop feeling sorry for yourself or blaming her for cheating on you. If you think she is unfaithful, you have to think what you did to encourage or not to encourage her unfaithfulness.

The most obvious signs that she is cheating on you

1. You’re too focused on sex and not enough on emotional connection.

2. You notice a great change in her usual behavior and habits.

3. She is not emotionally needy. You treat her badly, but she does not care because she gets attention elsewhere.

4. She has become mysterious, talks about herself less or is even evasive.

5. She is compensating for her unfaithfulness with presents and unusual kindness.

6. Rely on your instincts. They are usually accurate.

7. You do not communicate with her much and spend more time watching the television than talking with her.

8. She is interested in different type of intercourse, more frequent relations, new techniques or even wants less sex.

9. You are irrationally jealous, you do not trust her and you want to control what she is doing.

10. She hides her bank statements.

If she is really cheating on you, take this as a warning sign that something has to change in your relationship – with both of you. You can also end the relationship. Not many people deal with cheating easily because the ideal of faithfulness has been present in our minds for an eternity.