The Penis Has a Personality

29.06.2012 | By: Alex F.

The penis often acts according to its own will. It works well, fails or grows of its own accord. One could say that it has a personality.

Penis, or its size, is a burden to many men in their youth. Later, it becomes clear that size is hardly a problem. (PhotoXpress)

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The penis has the biggest symbolic meaning of all human organs, as a sign of dominance and because it acts according to its own will, as though it has a personality.

The penis belongs to both lovers

We don’t want to go into psychoanalysis or biology, but it’s not a bad test of a love affair if the penis, even though it’s very much his, the man's, still somehow "belongs" to both of you. This exact connection of programmed emotions adapts a man perfectly to all kinds of experiences and feelings connected to sexuality, identity and development. Freud’s formulation that men have fears that a woman or a jealous parent will take away their penis, while the woman sees it as something she has lost, is biologically accurate, but it’s oversimplifying things.

The penis is definitely an aesthetic object as well

The truth is that in good sexual activities, the penis becomes something that lovers share. It fascinates both genders because of its tissue, erectile quality and so on. Its obvious independence is a little frightening. That’s how it’s programmed. The fact that a human penis is relatively larger than with other primates is probably a result of complex psychological functions. It’s both an aesthetic and functional object, and it has a personality as well.

Try to understand why men obsess about size so much

The penis is a source of anxiety and superstition for exactly these reasons and is the centre of all possible magical rituals. It often contains the essence of the male self-respect and the feeling of identity. If it doesn’t work, or even worse, if it is rejected by a woman, the consequences can be catastrophic.

The fact that the penis has a personality explains the irrational preoccupation of men with the size of their member. Size has absolutely nothing to do with the physical usefulness of a penis during intercourse or – seeing as the female orgasm doesn’t depend on how deep inside her you go – with your ability to satisfy your partner, even though the idea of a big cock can turn many women on and a small number of women even say that they feel it more.

A vagina that isn't stretched is 4 inches long. If anything, it’s the width that’s more important. The size of a floppy penis also has nothing to do with the size of a hard one – a penis that’s large when it’s resting usually doesn’t grow much during an erection.

The size difference between races is negligible and the size of the penis doesn’t correspond to the size of muscles anywhere else on the body. Thus there's no reason to be anxiously prejudiced.