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Written on: 18. May 2010 15:38
William
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registered since: 19.04.2010
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Andrea,

Ouch...yep that'll drive you to chocolate.

You did really good though at explaining who you are and what you need to him. Then...he wanted something else. It took a lot of courage. You should be proud of doing the right thing.

From everything you've written, you are a great catch. It doesn't help much now...but cling to the fact that you are an attractive woman.

Keep writing. Don't give up on us yet.

William
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Written on: 22. May 2010 21:25
andrea24
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William,

I'm glad to tell you that I feel much better today. I guess chocolate and a girls' night out always help. It actually feels quite good to be alone and not having to worry about the problems I had with my ex.

But we've been together for two years and I now I'll still have those bad moments. I guess I just have to sort it all out in my head, anyway.
After all, we had problems in bed after only two years, imagine what was to come in the future.

I wonder how long it will take me to get used to being single again.
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Written on: 23. May 2010 00:43
William
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Andrea,

If breaking up after two years did not hurt, it would be sad in itself. You just make the right decision and move on. It is rare that people don't find someone to love. You will. Enjoy your time. If you have friends, get to know them...volunteer...exercise.... you know, all the normal stuff. Let us know how it goes.

One fun idea would be to create fun posts and new threads on this site for us all to play with!

William
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Written on: 6. Jun 2010 07:01
sasha7
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im actually in the same situation. I love sex. i would probably do it 24hrs if i could. but i love my boyfriend and want him way more often than he wants me. he's four years older than me and far more experienced. i would never guess that he's cheating or me or that he is gay. but i will admit it does hit a soft spot when i come on to him and i get nothing in return. i'm slowly trying to spice up our relationship by trying to get him to experience things with me that are unlike what he has had before me. i hope to get to a point where he wants me and i don even have to ask.
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Written on: 12. Jun 2010 15:07
angiewatson
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hmmm interesting read, particularly from andrea, sasha and the pansymaid. It seems in this more liberated world for women that there is a new order and wives/girlfriends are not prepared to put up with a second rate sex life. Neither do they wish to lose their boyfriend/husbands that they are comfortable with. i suppose it all comes down to how you handle the situation. Andrea has lost her partner, sasha may well do and in my opnion neither should. The pansymaids wife appears to be the only one that has it sussed.

I'd like to hear more from pansymaid on the dynamic of his relationship as I feel the other two could learn a lot as he appears to be in the same boat as my hubbie and I.
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Written on: 14. Jun 2010 10:01
andrea24
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Sasha,

Is your strategy working already? Does he want sex more or are you still working on it?
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Written on: 19. Jun 2010 18:02
pansymaid
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angie, what do you want to know? I think you and I or probably my wife and you are indeed on the same boat as you put it.

However I will only give out more details of how things have progressed between my wife, her lover and I have developed if either andrea or sasha ask for it also as things are now very much more intense (as well as more loving) between my wife and I and I do not wish to offend anyone.
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Written on: 21. Jun 2010 10:00
andrea24
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pansymaid,

that is a very interesting situation that you're in and I would love to know more about it.

I think it is quite intriguing that things are more loving between you two. But what about jealousy, don't you feel at least slightly jealous?
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Written on: 21. Jun 2010 19:34
pansymaid
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It's quite intamite (and a very long story with regards to how things have devloped) and like I said I do not wish to offend anyone. What is right for us may not be right for everyone. If she knew I was talking about it this way I think she'd kill me.

However as andrea is the originator of this thread I will try and find time to piece it all together soon.
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Written on: 26. Jun 2010 23:44
gladijator
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i am gone be short.....make changes in your sex live be inovative put sexy clotnes,or do something to make him horny icon_smile.gif


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