8 Signs Your Partner Wants to Get Rid of You!

2.06.2011 | By: T. P.

Learn about the signs which tell you whether your partner is unfaithful or wants to get rid of you!

He doesn't listen. If he doesn't listen, he doesn't care. If he doesn't care, he will get rid of you. Or he is just tired. (PhotoXpress)

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Your conversations end in a strange way

Do you know that awkward silence during a phone talk with your partner? You say something and he cordially answers, but he doesn't continue the conversation and just waits for it to end. This is a clear sign that something is wrong. It is quite possible he wants to get rid of you and end your relationship.

Your future is suddenly unimportant

A man who is about to get rid of you will try to avoid conversations about your mutual future in different ways. For example, he will say that it's a waste of time to think too much about the future because we never know what it holds for us. Or he will say that he hasn't got enough money for holidays and that you should save money instead. He responds to conversations about your future life by giving strange answers, which in no way convey happiness and expectation.

Suggesting polygamy

”Darling, what do you think about an open relationship?” and “I need more space.” are typical excuses men make. They mean only one thing- he wants to get rid of you. Nothing else. Absolutely nothing else. Do I need to write it down again? Absolutely nothing else!

Pay attention to where he is looking

Private investigators know how to figure out if a person is lying. And if you look carefully, you will notice that some people look upwards and towards the left before answering a question. This supposedly shows that a person is using the left, creative side of their brain. In other words, we make up things and try to find the best answer.

He pats you on your back

When your partner pats your on your back it is usually a sign of insecurity and anxiety. He probably feels awkward and uncomfortable. If his pat is strong, the situation is even more alarming.

Reflexion

People who live and spend a lot of time together develop specific body talk and they appear to be in tune. If you feel that the harmony of your relationship is lost, then it probably is. Patti Wood, an expert in body language, would tell you that persons who are trying to get rid of their partner often turn away their chest, eyes, neck and hands. It is a clear sign that a man has lost interest in you when he turns away from you with his body during a conversation.

Handwriting

Karen Weinberg, a graphologist, says that a partner who is about to leave you or wants to get rid of you changes his or her handwriting. The last letters of the word love become smaller and lower than the others, and it often happens that he or she will write your name in smaller letters.

Change of style

If a partner cheats, he cheats as a different person. This means that he can’t wear the same fragrance and clothes when he is with his lover. They evoke memories and guilty conscience, so usually he changes his perfume, aftershave and a large quantity of clothes. Any other change in his behavior can indicate infidelity but don't forget that it can also be only a change of style and it doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get rid of you.

Everything written above is relative. It is best to confront your partner directly and ask the classic question. Look straight into his eyes and ask “Do you love me?” and then “Are you cheating on me?” If he withstands the pressure and gravity of the questions, he’s either faithful or an extremely good liar who will never give himself away.