''Help, He Doesn't Have a Clue about Kissing!''

9.06.2011 | By: Kathy M.

You finally found the man of your dreams, your life is like a fairy tale, with one little exception - he is really bad at kissing. So what do to?

Kissing is an important part of the relationship. (PhotoXpress)

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Your man is perfect, you can easily imagine a future with him, he is attentive, kind and an excellent lover. He only has one little flaw and that is, that he doesn't know a thing about kissing. When his lips approach yours, you start experiencing an unimaginable nightmare, but you still care for him so much that his terrible kissing is not reason enough to end the relationship. Read how to improve his kissing skills!

Find the reason for your problems

First you have to define what bothers you about his kissing. Are his kisses too drooling? Too rough? Too gentle? Does his tongue attack you as soon as you open your mouth? Does he has a bad breath? The next time you're kissing, focus on what bothers you. When you locate the problem, it will be easier to find an appropriate solution.

Come up with new suggestions

One way to change things is to suggest a new kissing technique about which you were reading in a magazine. Show and explain him what to do, how to kiss you and guide the kiss from the beginning to end.

Any critique should be constructive

Even though you don't notice any improvements at first, don't be too cruel with your critique. Nobody wants to hear that they're bad at something like kissing, so should you spare it. Focus on the good things he possesses instead and hint about the things he could change through praise. For example, you can tell him something like this: '' Your lips are sooo soft. Why don't you use a little less of your tongue so I can really get to feel your lips?''

Take the initiative

The biggest mistake is to simply surrender and suffer during his kissing. Take the initiative ans start kissing your partner in a way that you want to be kissed. He will probably follow your example and with a bit of luck his kissing will soon jump a few scales and become erotic and breath taking.