How to Make a Woman Happy?

26.08.2010 | By: S. B.

No, the answer is not with gifts. So how to make a woman happy? Read on and you'll be surprised by how little it takes!

Make her happy with affectionate gestures and romantic surprises. (Photoxpress)

1.Make her happy with kisses

Even though it might seem self-evident, ask yourself if you really do kiss your loved one every time you leave home an when you come back. If you do, the kisses shouldn't be superficial, without effort and given only because it is expected of you. Every time you kiss and hug her, do it sincerely, look into her eyes and whisper something pleasant and intimate into her ears.

Don't kiss her only when you want to have sexual intercourse, but kiss her more times a day and in different ways: gentle or passionate kisses, depends on the situation. Even though you don't feel like kissing frequently, women still long for more kisses, claims Dr. Leslie Parrot from the Center for Relationship Development. According to their research, women feel more desired , loved and gain confidence with frequent kissing.

The next time you realize that you have been neglecting kissing, bear in mind that your partner might feel rejected because of it.

2. Make her happy by helping her with the housework

W. Bradford Wilcox, an American sociologist and director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virgina, came to a surprising conclusion by studying the habits of 5000 married couples. The fact is, that women are still willing to take on a lion's share of housework and they are not bothered by it.

Even the most modern women tolerate and are completely happy with the unfair distribution of housework. But they are happy with it only if their partner is capable of providing for them and enable them a comfortable living.

Such results could be interpreted in more ways than one: money and comfortable living is what makes women happy the most. On the other hand and according to other anthropological researches, women are happy if their partner displays manly behavior and act as their protector. According to Wilcox, women demand from their partners to be emotionally available, in return for their housework labor.

You should think about helping your loved one by doing at least some of the household chores. If your partner won't have do to all the household labor by herself, she will be happier and more relaxed. Even if you don't know how to cook and leave that part to her, you should at least give her credit for it and help her with something else instead. Relationships coach Dr. Ruth Purple warns that a man can make a woman happy by acknowledging her efforts and not by acting in an ignorant way or even by making fun of her.

3. Make her happy with little romantic surprises

David Wygant, a relationships counselor, encourages men to make women happy with constant attention and surprises. They can surprise their loved one with a trip, hidden romantic messages in the apartment or with affectionate text messages during her day at work.

Don't neglect the power of touch: take a shower together, rub her feet, make her dinner and let her know that you're not bored by the relationship. Dr. Purple urges men not to forget to act like gentlemen, for example hold the chair and open the door for her, because every woman likes to feel like a lady.