Men Are Like a Petrol Engine

When it comes to sex, men are quickly "fired up", but they aren't useful for a long run. Also, after doing it, women want to cuddle and men want to snore ...

 

 

Men are like a petrol engine ... They start and finish fast. (PhotoXpress)

 

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Most women desperately want to see their lovers gently snuggling up to them after sex and caressing them to savour the moment of intimacy. However, reality is usually different. After having intercourse, men would sleep, eat, smoke, watch the television or have a shower, which all triggers mixed feelings in women. The women who understand their men get used to it, while others wonder if their partners love them, or whether they weren't good in bed, or whether their lovers' mothers didn't teach their sons good manners, or "how insensitive they are, idiots!" ...

Men cool down very quickly after reaching an orgasm, both literally, in terms of the body, and psychologically. For them, this moment means it's time to regenerate, and every man experiences it differently. No physical stimulation can help, at this point. Men simply have to recharge their batteries. If there's a really strong desire at work (read – a hot new girlfriend, a release from prison, the blessing of the higher power), batteries may be recharged in a moment, but in a long-term relationship this will never happen. Everyone who is experienced in tantra or similar traditions smiles sweetly. However, these super skills cause profound changes in lifestyle and thinking that an average Westerner isn't ready to accept.

As a man, I would like to place emphasis on the justifiable behaviour of men, because the whole modern sexual theory is devoted to the pleasure of women anyway. Real men are disappearing; they're turning into all-knowing, every-wish-fulfilling puppets, who agree to everything in order to keep a relationship alive (or for "good fuck"). Why wouldn't we just turn over on our backs and start snoring? Why wouldn't we have sexual intercourse in black socks and, after successful performance, take a bottle of beer and turn on the television? Unfortunately, men aren't exactly made for "cuddling" and fulfilling the whims of women. Yes, we are able to love and we need affection, but we are free beings who also need their own space and independence. Buy your dear a dog.

 

Read more about sex and sexuality in our Lover's Guide.

 

 

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