Men, Do You Know How to Cuddle?

Cuddling is an important part of intimacy between the partners but a lot of men forget about it altogether. Do not be one of them, learn how to cuddle!

 

If you know how to cuddle you have a greater chance of winning your partner's heart. (Photoxpress)

 

Cuddling is very important for many women because for them it means the expression of love, affection and tenderness in a non-erotic way. Men, on the other hand, often cannot grasp the meaning of cuddling, especially if it does not even lead to sex. If you wonder why cuddling is so important, read on and learn how to find a way to your lover's heart...

Why it is so important for women that men know how to cuddle?

Cuddling is very pleasant because it awakens our feelings of comfort. During cuddling itself the partners grow closer and they also feel like they belong to each other. Women perceive cuddling after the sexual intercourse as a fact that men do not use them only for sex but also see them as life companions. Cuddling before sex can be a sort of a foreplay or just an expression of mutual love without erotic connotation.

Why men like to pretend they do not know how to cuddle?

Most men feel sleepy after an orgasm and everything they want to do is sleep. Women do not understand why they do not want to cuddle and men do not understand why would they have to cuddle if the sexual intercourse is over anyway. Besides, men feel vulnerable when expressing love because they think that real men are not allowed to show their gentle side. They also do not see a point in stroking their partner's hair and fondling them while they are staring at the ceiling. 

Why it is so important that you know how to cuddle and express your gentle side?

It is a fact that women love to cuddle but men still cannot understand the phenomenon. We do not need to think much to find a connection between a happy woman and a happy relationship. If you always turn away after sex and start snoring, then your partner must be pretty unhappy. Unhappy partner does not make you happy, does she? So making your partner happy also makes you happy, right? So there is no reason to avoid cuddling anymore even if you think that it does not have a point. Nothing turns women away more than men who think that the only way to prove love is by having sex and only sex.

How to cuddle: Advice for beginners

For those of you, who are new to the world of cuddling and you do not have an idea how to start, we have some advice. Stroke her hair and her face, kiss her forehead, stroke her back, look deep into her eyes, etc. A few minutes of cuddling after sex can get you far because, as we already said, women do not like men who turn their back on them after sex. You should also try to make cuddling the purpose in itself, not as an introduction to foreplay or sex. You can cuddle in the middle of the day, in bed in the morning, or in the evening after a long and stressful day at the office. Cuddling is a very pleasant way to express tenderness and it does not require a lot of time and energy either.

Read more about the mistakes of men in our Lover's Guide.

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