What Triggers Insecurity and Jealousy in Every Woman?

22.12.2011 | By: I. M.

No matter how confident your partner looks on the outside, there are still certain situations which make a woman feel insecure.

Even a very confident woman experiences insecurity in ceratin situations.

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Insecurity and dating

The world of dating can be very cruel and it is not unusual for women to feel insecure when dating a new person. After the first date, women experience insecurity and wonder if he will really call them the next day. Even though they try not to check their phone every five minutes they still can't resist it. Therefore you should always keep your promise and don't cause the unnecessary bad mood. During dating period women worry about where the relationship is going more often than men. If you want to jump between the sheets too fast, you will only make her insecure about your real intentions. If you don't even mention it she will think that you want her only as a friend. She will also wonder if she is the only person you're seeing. Honesty is, as always, the best solution.

Lack of interest causes insecurity

Even a very confident woman needs attention and confirmation that you like her. If your signals are mixed and weak then she will feel insecure about wanting to have a relationship with you.

»Do I satisfy him in bed?«

Men are not the only ones who worry about their abilities in bed. Their task might seem harder, but women are also insecure about their 'performance'. Every critique should be expressed very carefully because women can be very sensitive. If her performance was excellent you should tell her so. It will increase her sexual confidence and she will be more eager to experiment with you next time.

»Is he interested in other women?«

You often have to prove her that you're not cheating on her and that you're not interested in other women. That is something every woman has to be sure about. The right attitude will never give her a reason to doubt your fidelity. If her doubts are still present, ask her what caused them. Ensure her she's the only one for you and that you have no need for other women. Also tell her that you're happy with her, that your intentions are honest and that you intend to remain faithful.

»Am I still attractive to him?«

Many couples forget to pay each other compliments over the years. When the compliments completely disappear, she may start to feel insecure about whether you are still attracted to her. Don't take her for granted and compliment her looks more often. Compliment is a nice gift for which you will definitely be rewarded. It also a way to keep romance and passion going.

Another woman steals your attention

Flirting is usually harmless and innocent but it should never happen in front of your partner's eyes. If you notice another woman eager for your attention, stay out of it. It will only bring you arguments and unhappiness. You would probably feel uncomfortable too, if your partner was flirting with other men in front of you. When you are together, give all the attention to her. You can still flirt in you free time.