Why Men Sometimes Do Not Call You after Sex?

23.08.2012 | By: S. J.

He shagged you on the first date, took your phone number and now he does not call. We have the most commonly answers, why he did not call you.

There are many reasons why he has not called you after you had sex. (PhotoXpress)

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Has it ever happened to you that you slept with someone you met for the first time (or whom you barely knew) and after his persistent begging gave in and gave him your phone number, which he subsequently did not use, of course? A woman may very well ask herself why he took the number if does not use it? But, dear ladies, the stories why he did not call you, may be very diverse in deed.

We will reveal a few of them and you make sure that nothing similar does not happen to you again.

You did not hit it off

Although the intercourse seemed like a total disaster, he expressed his enthusiasm over the whole thing. There are men who think that it is better to lie and hide their lack of enthusiasm and then promise that you should repeat the phenomenal experience and subsequently never call again.

Such men are cowards and you should not worry over them. They obviously do not know that intercourse where two people hit it off the very first night is a real rarity and that every subsequent attempt is better.

You were only his trophy

For many men it is still very important that they are able to brag to their male friends with the number of women they slept with. Sadly this has been and will always be the case. If you do not receive a phone call from him, check with your acquaintances if any of them happens to know him. You will soon find out whether he is the sort of man to whom a woman represents only a number with which he can brag around.

He had problems with his phone

Yes, you may not believe it, but it can happen. He may have lost it, he may have forgotten it on the roof of the car and only remembered it when he saw other cars on the highway driving over his previous Nokia with your phone number in it. Maybe such stories seem unreal to you, but believe me I know of quite a few occasions where they really took place. So before you categorize him under a coward or a Don Juan, you should ask him if he has ever had a similar experience before you give him your phone number. If he has had it, I warmly recommend that you write your number on a piece of paper as backup and hope that he is not such a clumsy person that he would lose two things at the same time.

He already has a girlfriend or a wife

These are our favourites, right? Of course, another possibility is that our Mr Infidelity has a perfectly nice girlfriend or a wife waiting for him at home to come back into her arms, while he fancies a bit of romance with someone else. You may expect to hear from such a man again but only when he fancies his bit on the side.

But you should be clear right from the beginning that he is only using you for sex, so think carefully if that is really what you want. You can avoid this before you get involved with him if you take a look at his hand and you notice that there is maybe a trace of a wedding ring on it. Another good way of finding out is driving in his car. You will quickly realise if he is already spoken for because there will surely be a present from his sweetheart or at least a CD, which could only belong to a woman.