10 Tips on How to Spice Up Your Sex Life

22.03.2010 | By: S. S.

Living with a steady partner doesn’t have to be dull. You can confront the danger of routine with little things that can greatly spice up your sex life.

When we speak of sex, we automatically think of coitus, but that isn’t necessary the case. (jlp)

More is less

In order to spice up your sex life, return to the basics and focus on one thing instead of a whole range of them. Why shouldn’t you try to achieve the climax only by kissing, petting and caressing – without penetration? The posing of obstacles can be just as exciting as their removal.

No panties

Ask her out to dinner and persuade her to leave her panties at home. Your secret will add an erotic note to the evening. A little bit of innocent playfulness will considerably spice up your sex life.

Have an affair

Have an affair - with each other. Check into a hotel under false names, pretend that you’re getting to know each other by having the initial polite conversation and then let the rush of passion sweep you away.

Be loud

You can certainly spice up your sex life by being loud when making love. Always let her know how aroused you are during sexual intercourse. If you like to listen to her moans of pleasure, you can be sure she'll like yours as well.

Take me

Spice up your sex life by letting yourself to be left at the mercy of each other. You don’t necessarily need bondage or slapping. There’s nothing more exciting than surrendering to the woman you trust and allowing her to do with you whatever her horny heart desires.

Let yourself be left at the mercy of your partner. (jlp)

What’s your name?

Pretend that you’ve just met. Approach her at the previously agreed location – at a pub, restaurant, library or bus. Act as if this were a pure coincidence. Flirt with each other for a while. Then, start talking as if you were strangers. Flirting will definitely spice up your sex life.

Continuous commentary

Say what you intend to do to each other and comment on it all the time. This can add a touch of a hot “alienation effect” to your conversation which gives you the feeling of voyeurism or acting in an erotic movie.

A week of sex

Here's another idea how to spice up your sex life: determine a week when you need to have sex at least twice a day. If you want, you can make additional rules, for instance, not to use the same position twice, or to have sex in the same place or room only once. At the end of the week, you’ll have to have sex in a ventilation shaft.

For a week, let raunchiness be the norm. (jlp)

Fines

Take time for a board game and impose sexy fines on each other. For instance, when she lands on your airport in monopoly, she’s exempt from the fine in return for oral sex.

Tidy yourself up

Do you remember how long it used to take for you to tidy yourself up and smell nice for a hot date? Spice up your sex life by striving to make yourself irresistibly attractive. You’ll have fewer problems with getting between the sheets any time you want.