5 Tips for Group Intercourse

8.11.2010 | By: K. Z.

Are you thinking about group intercourse? Read some useful tips to make the decision easier!

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Group intercourse can spice up your sexual life if you're in a long term relationship, but it also requires some consideration and especially a lot of discussion, before you actually decide to do it. Read some tips for group intercourse which point out the main things you have to be careful about and the problems it may bring along. It is not a rare occurrence that partners who otherwise function very good together, break up after they indulge in group intercourse.

Group intercourse tip #1: Honesty, sincerity and reliability

If you think you are not capable of taking part in a group intercourse, then it is best to forget about it. It is very important for your relationship that you thoroughly talk about every aspect of it and that you don't hold anything back. Each of you has to say what s/he expects from group intercourse, what s/he wants and what s/he doesn't want and what rules have to be followed regardless of anything. If one of you doesn't want the other to indulge in anal intercourse with the others or perhaps oral intercourse, then this should be respected. Even if your partner is not around at the time and s/he would never find out.

Group intercourse tip #2: Talk about eroticism you want to experience

Not all groups are the same and therefore you have to talk about what you want to experience. If one of you wants tantric intercourse and the other one BDSM, then your desires are apparently quite different. In such case you will need to find a compromise that will satisfy you both. Don't force your partner to do something s/he doesn't want to because the whole experince will be far from orgasmic.

Group intercourse tip #3: Decide about the group size

A lot depends from the size of the group you choose to join. If the group is smaller, the whole experience will be more intimate and personal, and if it is larger, it can happen that you won't see each other for the entire night. You can also choose between a group of single people or a group which consist only of couples.

Group intercourse tip #4: Setting time frames

Set the time boundaries before the action begins. Decide how much time you can spend together and how much time you can spend with other people. Setting time frames is important because otherwise it can happen that one of you will spend the entire night with just one person which will drive the other one crazy. The rules should be clear: a penetration should last for so long, oral intercourse for so long and so on.

Group intercourse tip #5: Does it benefit your relationship?

If you are reading this article then you have probably come so far that group intercourse has become a part of your conversation. If or when you decide for action, always consider what this means for your relationship. Group intercourse with your partner concerns you both. The question remains: is it worth to risk your relationship which makes you happy and fulfilled for the sake of group intercourse?