6 Things You Need to Know about Anal Intercourse

25.01.2010 | By: S. J.

Learn how to make anal sexual adventures pleasant and not painful. There are certain things that you just have to know about anal intercourse before indulging in it.


Use a LOT of lube prior to and during anal intercourse.

Use a LOT of lube prior to and during anal intercourse.


In practice, the anus has not been used only for excrement already for a long time, as it has often served as a "substitute" for the vagina. Moreover, many women claim that it is even easier for them to experience orgasm by having anal sex rather than vaginal intercourse. However, the thought of anal penetration arouses unpleasant feelings in a number of people. Men who actually have an enormous desire to insert their penis into the partner's anus may have prejudice against anal sex, because they are afraid that this could hint at their homosexuality. Women, on the other hand, are usually afraid of pain. If you would like to practice anal sex, we prepared advice on how to make things easier for you.

1. Don't use force.


It is important that both partners truly want anal intercourse before doing it. For those women who are afraid of anal sex, or do it because of their partners, it will be harder to relax to the point at which intercourse will not be painful for them. And anal intercourse can really be quite painful.


2. Relax.



Women can experience pain, so go about anal intercourse carefully. (jlp)

Women can experience pain, so go about anal intercourse carefully. (jlp)


Relaxation is of key importance in anal sex. It is also recommended that you breathe deeply. Do you wonder why? The anal sphincter muscles are very strong. They are located around the anal opening and control the functioning of the intestines. If you penetrate the anus and do not breathe deeply while doing it, you will feel pain.


It is also recommended that you have foreplay by using fingers or a small sexual aid, and that you use a lot of lubricant before penetrating. Here it is important that the sphincter muscles have enough time to adapt to the object of penetration, before being replaced by a real penis. Never penetrate the anus by force; leave it to slowly stretch by itself and adapt to the object that you are inserting into it.

3. Lubricant, lubricant and once again lubricant.


If you use condoms, choose a water-based lubricant.

If you use condoms, choose a water-based lubricant.


Do not forget to use lubricant during anal intercourse as well, not just prior to penetration. If you use latex condoms, lubricant should be water-based.


4. Don't rush things.



Third time lucky. Don't give up after the first attempt.

Third time lucky. Don't give up after the first attempt.


Remember that it is not desirable to be hasty. If you penetrate the partner's anus quickly, you can cause her great pain and thus disgust anal intercourse to her FOREVER. So, do it infinitely slowly, slowly, slowly and use a lot of lubricant, making anal sex more exciting for both of you.

 

5. Use protection.

Yes, you can get pregnant by having anal sex, because the seminal fluid can reach the vagina as well. Even if the chances to get pregnant are smaller than with vaginal intercourse, here protection is still especially welcome. It's easier to penetrate the anal opening with the help of a condom, and you will also be protected against various gynaecological infections and sexually transmitted diseases.

 

6. Make sure you are both clean.



Wash your penis before putting it into your partner's mouth, after it was in their anus. (jlp)

Wash your penis before putting it into your partner's mouth, after it was in their anus. (jlp)


If you also want to have oral or vaginal sex while practising anal intercourse, wash your penis well (preferably with the soap which has a low pH value) and then continue with what you intended. Bacteria in the anus might cause irritation or infections if transmitted to other parts of the body.


To conclude, another piece of advice: don't give up after your first attempt at anal sex. Every couple needs some practice, so everything can turn out the way it should, if you only show persistence. Be patient and take your time to learn about anal sex in practice - you know what they say: third time lucky.



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