7 wisdoms about sex that you have to know

25.07.2009 | By: Sašo Stojanov

Don’t miss these 7 wisdoms which will show you the way to better sexuality.

Men respond much more quickly and automatically when it comes to sex than women. (jlp)

1. Men respond much more quickly and automatically when it comes to sex than women: male response is triggered by objects, like your clothes, breasts, smell, etc. This doesn’t mean that he loves these objects and not you, they’re simply things he needs in order to awaken the attention he uses to express his love.

2. Unrepressed sexual partners will let one another in on their fantasies (if they’re shy, they should do free associations right before an orgasm). Partners who really communicate will look for them and put them on the menu without prior notice – there’s no type of communication more perfect than this.

3. Women are sexually much more different to one another than men. Don’t think that you don’t have to start learning from scratch with each new person.

Women are sexually more different to one another, so every woman requires you to learn different things to turn her on. (jlp)

4. Planning and thinking about sex that is going to happen is a part of love. The same applies to lying in total bliss after intercourse.

5. With a little bit of theory, sex becomes more interesting, understandable and less frightening. If there’s too much theory, it brings a person down, especially if it gets out of control, so that you’re constantly thinking about what you’re doing.

6. Our (Anglo-Saxon) culture has become repressed after many centuries of terrible taboos about many kind of physical contact, like between friends and men (this is not uncommon in other cultures). Physical contact intimacy was limited only to the relationship between parents and children and the relationship between lovers. Ask yourself to what degree this repression is exhibited within you.

7. Some other cultures wouldn’t even recognise our image of sexuality, even though we have more choices than ever before. Our sex is too genital: in our culture “sex” means sticking the penis into the vagina. In other cultures, sensual matters are more in the forefront.