A Beginners' Guide to Bondage (Part 2)

14.05.2010 | By: T. B.

This time, the Beginners' Guide to Bondage brings you the positions to enjoy.

The Beginners' Guide to Bondage says: Handcuffs are NOT optional! (PhotoXpress)

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: Ideas

Bondage is basically not necessarily painful or violent. It is a form of submission. You can also tickle the person who is tied with a feather duster.

Bondage offers many possibilities, from simple tying up to various objects, tying up of arms and legs, blindfolding, gagging, to various combinations and positions in which you can tie a person up.

You can buy special muzzles in stores to gag the mouth, but you can also make them at home. You do this simply by gagging someone with a cloth and/or cover the mouth with duct tape.

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: The balltie

The balltie is a position where you subjugate a person by tying him/her up into a ball. It is best that the person’s heels touch the behind and the thighs touch the chest. If the person who is tied is wearing high heels, do not perform this technique on her, even if you are very tempted. An accident may occur if the shoe falls off or the heel breaks.

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: Tying the chest

Tying the chest is different from other way of bondage in this way that its direct purpose is not to immobilise a person, but a combination of various rope movements can lead to this as well. Tying the chest means that a rope or some other material is used (even a chain) to have fun and you do this by tying the rope or something else over the chest several times. Be careful not to tie too tightly or you might make it hard for the other person to breathe. You can lift or flatten the breasts, or change their shape and position in any other way.

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: The crotch rope

The crotch rope is performed so that you wrap the rope around the hips and then you go between the legs. In doing this, you are applying pressure to the crotch. For extra arousal you can tie a knot with the rope and place it on the clitoris or in such a way that it presses against the vagina or the ass, or even all three areas at the same time.

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: Like a frog

Tie the ankles to the thighs and spread the knees. You can also tie the wrists to the ankles. This position can be a good basis for intercourse or a start of further tying up.

Beginners' Guide to Bondage: Where to go from here

There are countless others positions and techniques. Every way is a combination of the basic position of the four body parts: different positions of the arms, legs, the head and the feet. The positions can also differ according to whether the person is standing, sitting, lying down, kneeling. Almost every position has a purpose. These are just some pointers to guide you in your own creativity.

With every game, safety should come first, so use a safe word and remember to change positions before they become uncomfortable or even painful.

If you missed it, click here for the 1st part of the Beginners' Guide to Bondage.