A Good Lover Must Know How to Caress a Woman!

10.10.2010 | By: S. S.

Caressing means moving about on the body which fills us with a divine feeling of erotic tenderness. Arouse her with caresses!

Caressing her body suits both parties. She enjoys it and you enjoy it because you know she enjoys it. (Photoxpress)

When you touch her body, don’t leave out any part. One man said he knows when he did well after massaging and caressing his partner: “When she almost falls asleep or when she gets mad when I finish.”

Ask her what kind of caresses she likes

Every woman has different needs and that’s why it’s good to stick to the basic principle which states: ask her what she likes. This is accordant to the belief that every partner makes us discover new and unknown erogenous zones. It’s important that you enjoy her body as well.

One woman warned that she felt like a remote-controlled machine, which means that she felt that the partner saw caressing as a ‘necessary evil’, a step which is required to get to the sexual part. Women feel this. It’s not that difficult to detect. The key to magnificent foreplay is in you being ready to travel on her body, to fondle it and at the same time avoid the so-called action spots (her private parts).

The amount of pressure depends on a sexual hormone

We mostly caress others in the same way as we wish to be caressed. But men often like different pressure than women. Men prefer deeper, stronger pressure, while women respond to a more tender and softer touch.

Are you wondering why? Because of the male testosterone hormone, the man’s skin is thicker and denser. That’s why the pressure you like may be too hard on her, will make her unpleasant or even cause her pain.

Some tips on how to caress different parts of her body:

1. Head

- Gently play with her hair on the top of the neck, lift it up and kiss her underneath it.

- Hold her close to you, so that she feels your warm breath on her scalp; she’ll feel it deeply.

- If you’re embracing her across her shoulders when you’re walking, play with her hair.

2. Face

- Circle her lips with your fingertips. You can do this with your eyes closed.

- Ask her to suck your finger when it’s near her mouth. She’ll show you what else
her tongue can do.

- Play: kiss one another around the outer edge of the lips with your eyes closed, without
touching your noses.

3. Ears

The way a woman reacts to having her ears touched is a great example of the differences between men and women. Men would say: “A woman who puts her tongue in my ear is a queen to me.” This is totally understandable because male ears contain androgen receptors, which means that the cells in male ears receive signals from male hormones and that’s why men have hair in their ears.

Women who like this are in a minority. If you can’t resist the ears, it’s better to circle the outer edge and the back of the ears, or suck on them. Your breathing should naturally be shallow.

The technique of licking and then blowing slightly causes conflicting sensations of warmth/moisture and then cooling. It has the same effect on the nipples, neck or back.

4. Neck and shoulders

This is a distinctive erogenous zone. Goose bumps and shivering are unavoidable with the right approach. Better than doing straight transverse movements, you should do circular, wavy motions. Use your tongue, lips, fingers and chin. She’ll respond like a cat and cuddle up to you. According to women, it goes something like this: “When he starts caressing my neck, I feel a warmth between my legs. I’m surprised that such a small area can arouse my entire body.” The saying that ‘variety is the spice of life’ is very much true here.

Don’t always use the same move. Continue to the shoulders and focus on both sides. And don’t forget that the part of the female neck from the end of the ears to the back of the neck is among the most sensitive areas on her body.