A Kiss to Build a Dream On

A kiss is the most intimate thing you can give. Do you know what's the real secret of a "kiss to build a dream on"?

 

We never forget our first kiss. (jlp)

 

The first kiss is unforgettable for at least two reasons: because it is the first and because it is terrible. But it is as natural as breathing. A lot of tips on how to kiss well focus on preparation and technical performance. Your breath should be fresh, your teeth should be clean, the surroundings should be such and such, the moment should be perfectly set, you should circle your tongue like this, not suck the tongue too much, you should not use too much saliva, you should not be too aggressive and you should not forget using your hands. With all this advice, many people forget why they are kissing someone in the first place and think only of the technical details. But the basis of a kiss to build a dream on are love and passion.

There's only one thing that needs to be there for a kiss to build a dream on. Love! (jlp)

 

If the first paragraph doesn't give you the words you would expect, let me try to explain. A kiss can be used as foreplay or as a social gesture. A social kiss is social in any meaning of the word. As an act of love, a kiss can be one of the most intimate things you can give to your partner. Men’s penises are easily replaced by a big dildo, but our lips are unique. Not because we cannot recreate the tissue, moisture, the heat or facial aesthetics. A kiss will remain a fortress of love just because it is a genuine display of love. It is just about the only thing which still connects to our animal side, as it makes us alive, warm, fragrant, sensual beings. A kiss is less stimulating for the senses than sex, so love is its key component.

A kiss is definitely more intimate than sex. (jlp)

 

But we cannot live with ideals, so following the advice on good kissing is certainly welcome. Fresh breath, shaved face, all these little things concerning the hygiene are important. On the other hand, the advice on techniques, on where to put the tongue, on what to do and how to do it, is pretty insignificant. A kiss to build a dream on comes on its own if you love the other person and if you are relaxed enough. We all remember teenage kissing, where both parties exchange gallons of saliva and have at least half of their faces wet. The only advice you need for most things in life is: „Do things in such a way that they will feel good!“ The basis for a good kiss is the enjoyment of both parties involved, and the real fire of a good kiss, a kiss to build a dream on, is chemistry. Love is the sole cause of that feeling in your stomach that makes your legs shake, your head spin and that makes you feel incredibly happy.

 

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