A Relationship Reborn

7.05.2010 | By: T. P.

Here are some ideas on how to make your sex life and relationship reborn.

A relationship reborn. Now keep it that way! (PhotoXpress)

Relationship Reborn: Old Wisdom vs New "Wisdom"

In ancient times wealthy and aristocratic couples were able to afford two bedrooms or more. Each partner had one. Can you imagine how many problems this solved? Nowadays it feels strange just to think about it. Read why this may not have been such a bad idea.

Nowadays every couple wants to live together, sleep and wake up in the same room. But this does not bring much good and causes many problems. Men and women are different. We are bothered by different things, we behave differently, have different life rhythms. Male snoring, tossing on the bed, watching films late at night, differently smelling farts, messiness... Women’s hair, menstruation, order, different taste in colours, furniture, flowers, snoring,... All this could easily be solved with two bedrooms. Because this is so out of fashion that I would seem unserious were I to suggest this, I recommend something in between. Create a sex room. If someone asks you, what you are making, you wisely reply: “A guestroom!"

Relationship Reborn: The "Guestroom"

The room does not have to be big, but it should be decorated nicely, it should represent a world of its own, it should resemble the outside world and work as little as possible. Install good sound insulation, either because of the neighbours or your children. Put a soft carpet on the floor. The room should be near the bathroom and should be connected directly to it. If money is not a problem, install a Jacuzzi as well. In this way, you can shower without being disturbed before and after intercourse and keep clean without having to wander through the corridors. Take your time and be careful when choosing the lighting and colour of the walls. If you use colour light bulbs, the colour of the walls may quickly turn from nice to strange. The lights should not be too bright, also consider where you place them because it is very unpleasant to stare into the light during intercourse. The room should be warm, the best idea is to have the floor heated, but it should also have good ventilation because, with regular activity, it could get moist in it. You want your relationship reborn, not moldy.

Relationship Reborn: The Altar

The bed should be the central altar of such a room. It should be the appropriate height and size. Bigger is better. Most of all, be careful that it is well-made and can take many punches. Get a very firm mattress and sheets that do not move about too much. You must have a lot of pillows. You will use them under your ass, neck, etc. If the room is not big enough, choose a smaller bed, so that there is room for lovemaking on the floor as well. There should also be an armless chair and a chest of drawers, where you can keep your accessories, contraception, sexy lingerie and the like. If you like erotic films, there should be room for a television set. It is best to screw a thin LCD screen straight on the wall and have a carrying bracket that allows you to adjust the angle.

Relationship Reborn: The Cherry on Top

If you ever plan to have this kind of room, save for another six months and turn at least one of the walls (ideally the ceiling) into a mirror. This way, the pleasure room will be perfect and soon your relationship reborn.