Advice on Giving a Blowjob

Women do the most mistakes when they are trying to orally pleasure their guys by concentrating too much on the technique.

Forget about books and rely on your lips

There are thousands of books in the world giving you all sort of advice on how to better orally satisfy your partner. You know, a vacuum, tongue, lips and all other approaches that should bring your guy to the climax. There are also various taboos, like using your teeth or squeezing his testicles too strongly. These things supposedly scare a man and make him lose all his arousal. There are also additional tricks only the best lovers are familiar with. You know, this is all just blowing hot air, which will not help you in real life if you worry about it too much. If you are thinking about what you have read during a blowjob, this will not end well. If you do exactly what the women in the pictures in the sexual books did, it will be even worse. Rely on your instinct – on your mouth, your tongue and your abilities. Do what you are capable of doing and be committed. The man’s reactions will show you what is good and what not.

Forget about technique and rely on your tongue

Women are too concerned with technique and the questions if they are doing it right and if the man likes what they are doing when giving a blowjob. That is why they are not spontaneous and committed enough and seem too much like robots. Do not worry, this is a mistake you can remedy. Dear ladies, forget about technique, conversations with your girlfriends and the books you read. Work on his penis in your own way, so that he will howl with pleasure. Show him that you are doing this for yourself as well and that you simply love the taste, smell and everything connected with his penis. Suck it, lick it all over, lick his testicles, spit on it, use your palms and breasts. That is it. There is no trick or any special technique required, like the books would have you believe. A penis is like a banana, or even better, like an ice cream. You should lick it and work on it with your mouth. What good is technique if there is no spontaneity. And what good are tricks if you do not have the right touch to pull them off? A man feels if a woman is too focused on what she has learned and if she is giving him a blowjob only on his behalf or if she feels she has to do this. He also notices that she is doing it in a way she has read in books and is now following the instructions. In other words, do not concern yourself with literature, only follow your desires and intuition.

Do not be afraid, it is only a penis

It seems that many girls become afraid exactly because of advice from books. They are afraid they will not be able to perform so well. They become afraid of the penis and the fact that they might not be up for the job. Do not be afraid, the penis does not bite and it will like almost everything you do to it with your tongue and lips. If it is freshly washed and perhaps even shaved, you should have absolutely no problems with it. Disregard what your female friends tell you. They usually exaggerate and brag. Just get to work and do it with pleasure. It is true, the woman must also enjoy the blowjob. If she does not, the man feels it. And why would you not like taking it into your mouth? He will enjoy himself and you will enjoy seeing him enjoy himself. It will feel good that you are able to bring such sensations from him and are able to arouse him so much with your mouth. Men see blowjobs as an act of great commitment. You can prove your commitment by giving him head and making him crazy. Believe us, he will pay you back with interest, or to be precise, with some wild and devoted licking of your intimate parts.

What if you still cannot do it?

If you still have problems giving him head, you can help yourself by stimulating yourself with your hand while working on his penis. You fondle your vagina and therefore give yourself encouragement to give him better head. It would be even better if you ask him to do it. This way, you will be able to get into the spirit of things even more easily and you will be able to really focus on his cock. It will be better than if your vagina sees no action while you are giving him a blowjob. If your partner’s penis is bigger and thicker, you may have problems with deep throat and your jaw may hurt if it takes long, but do not worry and use your palms and breasts to help you. So, use various combinations and do not rush him to finish as soon as possible. It is, however, usually the case that men are so turned on by getting blowjobs that they will come before you even get a chance to really get started.

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