An argument should be followed by sex

30.03.2011 | By: T. B.

Why is it best to surrender to some wild sex after an argument?

The best way to release testosterone after an argument is with sex. (PhotoXpress)

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All of you have probably heard how good sex after an argument feels, if you haven’t even experienced it. Those who have makeup sex claim that it’s most often insanely good, explosive and forceful. There are also quite a few people who feel this goes against common sense and can’t imagine making wild love to a partner after an argument. Why are there so many different views on sex after an argument?

Rise in testosterone levels during the time of the fight

During a heated argument, the levels of testosterone in a person become greatly elevated. This is the hormone which is in charge of sexual desire, the libido. It’s perfectly normal that people want to release the surplus of hormones within them in this heated condition. The best way for this is with intercourse.

Fighting and cheating

This rise in the levels of testosterone can partially answer the question why men who often argue with their partners also cheat more often. When two partners frequently argue, cheating can occur. But the cheating isn’t necessarily a consequence of arguing and the rift it creates between partners, but it might simply happen because of the constantly high levels of testosterone, which can’t be released.
When we argue, the levels of the testosterone hormone become very elevated in our blood. This increased value also means an increase of libido. Men who argue a lot walk around like ticking time bombs and look for an opportunity to relax – and so they cheat.

How to release testosterone in some other way?

Even though many people have discovered the wonderful world of sex after an argument, there are still many people who are too upset and hurt after an argument to think of sex. There’s another way for all of you who aren’t turned on by arguments in this way. You can also make up after an argument by cuddling. The tenderness and a safe embrace cool down the heated testosterone passions.