Anal Sex is Nothing to Be Afraid of

Here are a couple of hints on how to have safe anal sex and what to look out for when indulging in it.

 

 

You can definitely have safe anal sex and experience magical sexual delight while doing it.

 

The anus is often overlooked because people are held back by prejudice and fear when it comes to this particular part of the human anatomy. Despite this fact, the anus still has great potential in the sexual pleasure department and many men and women are apparently finding more and more joy in exploring this great potential. As for any other kind of sexual activity, anal sex should be consensual and no one should be pressured into anything. This is the first rule about how to have safe anal sex. If you’re interested as well but don’t know exactly where and how to start, we have prepared a couple of interesting tips on how to have safe anal sex.

Relax and explore your body

Most of the fears linked to anal sex come from the fact that people often don’t know enough about their own body. Before trying anal sex, you should thoroughly explore your body first. Take your time, secure some privacy, get undressed, lie down comfortably, breathe deeply and slowly, and start checking out your anus. It would be best to start exploring it with your fingers and to test how your anus and the area around it react to different kinds of stimuli. To explore the sensations in a different way, you could also use a sex toy to do it. Focus especially on what you like and what you don't like. Continue by exploring a certain part of your anus to see what feels good. Stop immediately, if you feel any pain or unpleasant sensations. Don’t insert anything into your anus by force since you could seriously injure yourself. If you follow these instructions, you will be able to have safe anal sex in no time.

Bye, bye prejudice

If you have doubts about engaging in anal sex, we recommend that you cast them aside as fast as you can. Keep an open mind and focus on your wish to have safe anal sex. Try to stimulate your anus in many ways and find out what kinds of anal stimulation you like best. Anal sex can include stimulation with the fingers or with other parts of the body, anal-oral contact, the spreading of the butt cheeks (and the anus as well), finger penetration, penile penetration, and many other things.

 

To have safe anal sex, the anus should be penetrated slowly, gently, smoothly, and with feeling.

 

How to penetrate?

Because the tissue of the anal area is very thin and very sensitive, the penetration has to be done very carefully if you want to have safe anal sex. The anus should be penetrated slowly, gently, smoothly, and with feeling. Don’t forget to use an appropriate lubricant to keep the anus moist all the time. In order to have safe anal sex, the anus should initially be penetrated with a finger and has to be sufficiently stimulated and relaxed. The anus can be stimulated and relaxed by slowly leading the tip of a finger around it or touching it slowly with a narrow vibrator. The anus should be penetrated only after it had been sufficiently relaxed. To have safe anal sex, the partner who is about the penetrate you, should always ask your consent beforehand. If you’re on the receiving end of anal pleasure, you should determine the speed and depth of the thrusts. If there is pain, the rectal muscles contract and make further penetration impossible. Should you feel any pain, stop immediately!

To have safe anal sex, the anus shouldn’t be penetrated by anything that has sharp edges. If you would like to use a sex toy, use one that is meant for anal penetration, such as butt plugs. Such sex toys have a wider end which prevents them from slipping inside the anus. To have safe anal sex, don’t use anything that could slip inside the anus. The vacuum effect that can pull an object inside the anus is namely so strong that if you end up with something jammed inside your rectum you’ll have to seek medical help immediately. You should also get medical help if anal sex is followed by constant pain or constant bleeding.

Keep it clean!

Even if you clean your anus perfectly, the contact with at least a minimum amount of fecal residue is unavoidable. If feces come into contact with any other cavity of the body, it could cause serious health problems. If you want to have safe anal sex, don’t insert anything that had previously been inside the anus into the mouth or into the vagina. Use a condom or an appropriate glove for penetration and partially cut up a condom or apply some other barrier to prevent direct skin contact if you would like to engage in anal-oral sex. After having anal sex, wash the anus with antibacterial soap and thoroughly clean all sex toys and other utensils that you may have used.

 

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