Analingus - Why not?

Analingus - to have your butt licked or to lick someone’s butt - is a great form of anal-oral sex.

 

 

The thought of licking someone’s butt or getting one’s own butt licked can be quite disturbing for some.

 

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Analingus, sometimes called rimming, is a form of anal-oral sex that involves contact between the anus of one person and the tongue or the mouth of another. So, either you lick someone’s butt, or you stick your bums out and get your butt licked yourself. There are quite a few men who avoid all kinds of anal sexual activity or anal stimulation respectively, where they ought to be the "recipient". The reason for this stems from the stereotype that anal-oral sex is exclusive to homosexual men. Well, that’s not true at all. Heterosexual men indulge in many kinds of anal-oral sex as well and they enjoy it immensely. A round of rimming has never marred any man's perception of his own masculinity. On the other hand, there are also quite a few women who shy away from anything that has to do with anal-oral sex. The reasons for it may stem from bad or painful experiences with anal sex. Yet, a sensible and attentive partner can be of great help when it comes to overcoming any kinds of inhibitions that may be linked to anal-oral sex.

If you both want it, analingus can be a wonderful experience

The first rule that you need to abide by when licking or having your butt licked - is consent. Both partners have to agree to it and be ready to experience the pleasures it may bring them. If one of you is ready and willing, while the other has doubts, it wouldn’t make any sense to go and do it anyway.  If you’re both eager to try it than your anuses should be wide open for stimulation. The anal region is full of highly sensitive nerve endings, which can bring you no end of pleasure when stimulated. But don’t just dart towards the anus without warning! First, start by arousing it gently with the tongue, like when you’re starting fellatio or a cunnilingus session. Before you get to the anus, place your tongue on the ridge of your male partner's scrotum or your female partner's perineum. Once you slide down and reach the anal opening, continue by gently touching it with your tongue. If your partner likes that, then start circling your tongue around the anus. Then, try to put the tip of your tongue inside, gently. If your partner shows that they would like more of that, insert your tongue into your partner’s anal cavity.

Proper Hygiene and Proper Safety Are the Key(s)

When it comes to anal-oral sex, proper hygiene and proper safety are the key elements for indulging in painless anal sex and a painless analingus session as well, without leaving you with a bad aftertaste. Before you have a go, take a shower or have a long, thorough bath. If a bath or shower isn’t available, then clean your orifices thoroughly with wet wipes, intimate wipes or baby wipes. Many people have their prejudices when it comes to the anus, mostly because of the anus’s “original” functions. If you pay attention to anal hygiene prior to engaging in any kind of anal-oral sex, especially a session of analingus, then there shouldn’t be any problems whatsoever. The taste of a thoroughly cleaned and wiped anus is basically more neutral than, for example, the taste of a moist vagina. The only thing that you should be always careful about is that you should never put anything that had previously been inserted into the anus into any other body cavity. You should also always brush your teeth after any kind of anal-oral sex.

Accessing the Anus

When it comes to licking someone’s butt or having your butt licked, accessing the anus itself can be a bit more difficult. Therefore, we would like to introduce you to some positions, which you and/or your partner could take in order for the pleasuring partner to access the "recipient" more easily. One such position is the one where the “recipient” places a pillow under his or her hips so that he or she can lift the pelvis a bit and so enable the pleasuring partner to access their anus easier. Another good position is the one where the “recipient” gets down on all fours, bends his or her back forward, and sticks his or her bottom out. If you’re eager to find out more about how you could lick each other’s butt in some different, creative positions, then feel free to invent your own, original way to enjoy analingus.

 

You can find more advice on Anal Intercourse in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

 

 

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