Are You Good in Bed?

6.04.2010 | By: I. M.

Are you good in bed? How can you know whether your sex life is good?

If sex is passionate, erotic and loud, it’s definitely good. (Photoxpress)

Compliments

If you wonder whether your sex life is good or bad, also ask yourself when was the last time you were paid a compliment by your partner for your performance in bed. If you pay compliments to each other before, during and after sexual intercourse, there’s nothing to worry about, provided that they’re sincere. If you rarely, or never, pay compliments to each other, it’s best that you ask your partner what he/she thinks of your sex life. You should talk about sex, which provides one of the ways to improve your sex life. If you radiate sexual energy, your partner’s reactions as well as the looks of strangers in the street will confirm that. For fun, it could also be said that your sex appeal is fully confirmed when at least five heads are turned on entering a room. The best indicator of the quality of your lovemaking is the expression on your partner’s face immediately after sex.

If someone is always coming back to you, it means that they simply can’t resist your sexual charms. (Photoxpress)

Is sex erotic enough?

If you want to have good sex, you have to spice it up, so it doesn’t become uninteresting and dull. Good sex begins with foreplay and ends with post-play, which gives sex a proper introduction end conclusion. This doesn’t necessarily mean that foreplay always involves oral sex. Definitely not. Foreplay can also involve a mere look, seduction or touching of the body in the right places. When an orgasm is achieved, sex isn’t over yet. Post-play involves caressing, soft kisses and the aforementioned compliments. If your partner is loud during sexual intercourse, it means that you’re a good lover. You can help him feel deep and wild thrills, which shows you’re the best in the world. Silent sex is like a boring silent movie where the leading actor and actress have no chemistry, so also pay attention to the breathing of your partner when assessing your sexual abilities.

If you like to experiment, you partner definitely won’t fall asleep during sex. (Photoxpress)

Although he leaves, he always comes back

The best sign that you’re a good lover is the fact that your partner always comes back in your bed and just can’t get enough of you. If slight stimulation from you arouses a strong desire for your body in him, that’s definitely confirmation that you’re driving him wild in sex life. Only good lovers are capable of convincing their partner to do anything for sex and sometimes they go as far as almost turning things into an addiction.

Unselfishness

Unselfishness is the highest virtue, particularly in sexual intercourse. Namely, the best lovers are never selfish. They devote more attention to their partner’s needs than to their own. This means that they are well familiar with their desire, they fulfil their fantasies, and they know the partner’s body like the back of their hand. They therefore know exactly where the areas that stir a sex beast in the partner are. Good lovers know exactly where erogenous zones are, and their tongue, mouth and hands always find the way to arouse the partner’s deepest desires. For instance, men should realize that some women need more time to warm up, and that women are able to achieve more orgasms. So why should you only have one orgasm? Every woman understands that the right degree of wild, naughty and unstoppable sex drives men crazy.

Experimenting

Good lovers never settle into a monotonous sexual routine. Instead, they’re always ready to try new things and boost their sex life and passion. Your partner will never complain about monotony if your sex life is exciting and you’re always willing to try something new, and if you surprise him occasionally. Oral sex shouldn’t be dull. You can lick you partner gently, have a loud sex, change sexual positions, take a sexy bath, surprise him by wearing erotic lingerie, use sex toys, but you shouldn’t only have sex in your bed. Mix food and sex. Play different roles. Make love slowly or be rough and brutal. Say to each other dirty words during sexual intercourse and never set any boundaries. Your sex should have no boundaries.