Aroused by Pain

One can be positively aroused by pain! During sex, our bodies are extremely sensitive to all stimuli. Only the most daring of us happily enjoy some pain in moments like these. Pain can really feel good.

Spanking

Many couples feel like spanking in the heat of the moment, or at least patting lightly on the behind, which is a naughty sign of lust. When your partner has been naughty, you can show it to him with sexual games, which can serve as foreplay. Spank his behind gently and “scold” him. Tell him he must make up for what he did and deserves to be punished. Do not be too rough with the spanking, unless you want to take your fetish so far that they leave a red mark. Use your imagination and various accessories to get aroused by pain. You can use your hands, kitchen utensils, a belt or an erotic whip.

Nipples

The nipples are a big erogenous zone with both women and men. They respond to every stimulus, but some also respond well to pain. When you decide to work on the nipples more daringly, make sure your partner enjoys it and that he or she is already sexually aroused. You can nibble them, squeeze them with your fingers, tug on them or drip hot wax on them. If your partner wants to go further, keep hooks for hanging laundry or any similar accessory nearby.

Bondage or tying up

 
In order to make your partner feel helpless and at your mercy, you can tie up his arms and legs. The accessories will depend on the amount of pain you want during bondage. You can use ribbons, nylon stockings, belts and handcuffs, which can be bought in any erotic shop. Handcuffs leave the most marks, but they are also the most reliable, unless they break.

Scratching

Nails are also suitable for causing erotic pain. Couples mostly use them on the back, but some also use them on the behind. Applying little pressure with the nails is enough. Slide down the back with them and stop at the behind, grab it and cause a flood of passion. There is nothing wrong if your nails do some work on the nipples, legs, thighs and intimate parts during foreplay, but be very careful.

Slapping

 
A slap can be exciting as well, if it is performed as punishment for being naughty and in a way which shows your partner you are aroused. You must show him that you like it. Hit his face gently and then with a bit more force to let him know he has misbehaved. With this type of pain, it is recommendable not to go overboard and that the partner is very aroused. He may masturbate, for example, which will make him more resilient to your punishment. You can also arouse him with oral intercourse and then allow yourself to do what you would not do ordinarily.