Be Lenient When It Comes to Erectile Dysfunction

This time we’ll discuss how erectile dysfunction affects you and how you can react calmly to this usual phenomenon.

 

Don’t panic during his erectile dysfunction, but choose to have a talk and a massage.

 

It often happens that a man can’t function sexually at exactly the time his partner expects him to. This is exhibited in erectile dysfunction. The reasons can be psychological or physical. The worst thing a woman can do when his cock fails is to start panicking and looking for reasons in herself. This only increases the problem.

 

''He’s not attracted to me any more!!!''

 
The most common thought women have when their partner is having erectile problems is that he is not attracted to them anymore. The worst kind of disappointment is when you get ready for intercourse with some sexy lingerie and the last thing you expect when he looks at your panties is his soldier failing. Don’t look for the reasons for his problem within you because this kind of thinking is wrong. Instead of becoming sad or starting a fight, talk to your partner calmly. Do not prod him with a thousand questions and don’t panic because you may get into an argument given the sensitivity of the subject. Do not accuse him - because he didn’t "fail you" on purpose. In this case, talk about your feelings instead and make him show his affection and love in some other way. For example, convince him to massage your back and legs and his preoccupation with his erection might even disappear.

Many women get the wrong impression of being rejected and unattractive. (jlp)

Don’t panic, you’ll get it up the next time

 
A man can crumble under the weight of a woman’s sexual expectations. When a woman is too demanding in bed, he can start having doubts if he can even satisfy her. No matter how strange and unusual this may sound, it’s true. An erectile dysfunction often occurs during first intercourse or during intercourse with an “unattainable” femme fatale, meaning a woman the guy has been making into a Goddess for a long time before they go to bed together. In both cases, there is a trace of a psychological weight on one’s shoulders, where the actions in the brain are overshadowed by the penis not functioning. Impatience and a hysterical reaction of the woman don’t bring anything good in a moment like this. According to some psychiatrists, a man can quickly become trapped in a vicious circle without an understanding woman. At first, he is worried he won’t be able to do it, then he can’t do it because he’s worried. Dear ladies, don’t be too demanding when it comes to erectile dysfunction because it may happen that you’ll be unpleasantly surprised because of your big expectations. If it doesn’t work the first time, it’ll work the second time.

Erectile dysfunction can be caused by the notion of femme fatale. (jlp)

Do we have to do it right now?

 
When a man is not up for sex at a certain moment, for whatever reasons, don’t force him because you’ll only end up being disappointed. The disappointment will be followed by sadness and your erotic intent will not end up well. It is in our feminine nature to see undertones in everything, so we interpret his inability to have an erection wrongly in a situation like this. If he doesn’t want to do it at the same time as you, that doesn’t mean he’s rejecting you and that he’ll never want you again. Just think to yourself: 'so what'. Take his mood as something not worth exploring further and suggest sex at a later time! That's the best piece of advice you'll ever get.

 

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