Become his friendly dominatrix!

Many men secretly fantasise about their partners occasionally dominating them during intercourse. It doesn’t hurt to try!

 

Dear ladies, domination isn’t only about a strict and violent woman dressed in leather who has to beat her man and demand he put on a gas mask. (jlp)

Don’t worry, you don’t have to overdo it

 

The thought of domination mistakenly conjures up images of whipping, rough sex, leather boots and maybe even gas masks to women who don’t like such activities. This is completely unnecessary and your man certainly doesn’t expect this. Domination can be very naughty and nice, but still decisive and such that both enjoy it. The point is in showing him you’re in charge, so that he does the things you tell him to do and you have to let him know that he’ll be punished if he resists. Words are very important as well. You have to speak in a decisive tone. You don’t have to do it like verbal humiliation and insulting, but in a way which tells him you want him to do what you ask and everything you desire.  

 

Gentle spanking will feel nice to your partner, while you can use it to show you’re being serious. (jlp)

Perform a slight case of masochism

 

Don’t forget about spanking, squeezing his nipples and a funny slap or two. But don’t overdo it because there’s no need for injury, especially if the idea’s not appealing from the start and if you don’t like doing violent acts. That’s why a gentler variety of wild masochism (also popularly called BDSM) is a very appropriate matter. You can use your hand to spank his bottom, but there’s nothing wrong if you use a belt or a slightly bigger shoehorn. Only spank your partner if he’s disobedient and if he’s not convincing enough when he tries to show you that he’s aware he has to do what you tell him. Spank him gently at first, but if you notice he’s not taking you seriously and is doubting you even dare to hit him, then you have to hit a bit stronger. The same applies for a slap, which should be gentle, then a bit stronger if necessary. Don’t forget a very important fact – your partner should constantly masturbate because this will keep him wildly passionate and he will thus allow you to go further than if he wasn’t additionally aroused. This means that you have to constantly demand he stroke his penis and encourage him with words as well. When you want it, also get to work on his nipples. He’ll really enjoy this and you’ll be able to let go a bit more than usually. You can nibble them or squeeze them as much as you want.

 

The job of every slave is to focus on his dominatrix’s feet as well. (jlp)

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your man

 

Don’t look at him strangely if he really gets into this and don’t reproach him for being a perverted fetishist. Take it as a game which you’re enjoying as well, which means that you should look at things a bit more broadly than domination clichés which might really repel you. Your man won’t be any less masculine because of subjugation since you only tried this, which means that this won’t become common practice and it doesn’t mean that he won’t be turned on by normal things anymore. This is just to spice up your sexuality and make his desires and perhaps things he has been dreaming about all of his life come true. If you liked the suggestions from the first part of the article and if you and your partner already tried them, we invite you to take the advanced class. You should surrender to it and play the dominatrix who is teasing her obedient slave. That’s right, you should see this as teasing, as stimulation, turning your man on in a special way, which means that you don’t have to think about giving commands and being rough if this is too repulsive for you.

His pleasure should be a reward

 

The reward is the point of your game and that’s what you should achieve. Anything you let him do should come out as his reward, even though he’s doing things for your pleasure the whole time. Let him know you’re in charge and that he can be happy you’re even letting him touch your body. If he really gets involved in the game,  he’ll do everything spontaneously and obediently, which means that you’ll be able to enjoy and let go like never before. And don’t be in a hurry. You can order him to do anything you want him to do to you. You may even persist for so long that you reach an orgasm. Then command him to stimulate himself and enjoy his orgasm together because, with a game like this, it will undoubtedly be like a volcano erupting.

 

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