Become the best female lover in the world (Part 2)

8.05.2009 | By: Antonio B

In the second part of our tips, with which you’ll become first-class lovers, we continue with some useful tricks which will make your men pleased when having sex with you like never before, while you’ll feel like the best partners in the world.

The more times you have sex, the more good sex you’ll want. (jlp)

Take time for yourselves

Women have many things on their minds, especially if they’re parents and if they have a difficult job. After a hard day, when you have to take care of your son and daughter at home and clean the apartment, make dinner and iron your husband’s shirts (this is a cliché which isn’t necessarily always true), the desire for sex and a transformation into a sexual goddess is naturally not possible. That’s why we’re advising you to take some time for yourselves. Have a warm bath, watch a nice movie and read a good book. This will help clean all the filth which has been collecting in you throughout the day and you’ll be ready for your partner in the evening.

Desire for sex

The more times you have good sex, the more times you’ll want to repeat it. Why shouldn’t you repeat things which bring you into ecstasy. The female body functions differently than the male body. Men get tired after intercourse, while women want even more of it. So don’t be surprised if one orgasm isn’t enough and if you want to have sex like wild animals every day. Let’s not forget that if your body is without sex for too long, you won’t be horny and in need of lovemaking even more. It will be quite the opposite – you’ll forget about sex and replace it with some other activity.

Don’t forget about masturbation

Masturbation is great, so don’t see it as a necessary evil when you’re without your man. Masturbate regularly and have fun with your vagina and breasts. The orgasms will always be good because there’s no woman who could ever disappoint herself. Masturbation helps you discover your own sexuality and is a precondition for good intercourse with your partner.

Relax in a hot bath after a hard day and gather strength for the evening’s sexual activities. (jlp)

Thinking about an orgasm

The orgasm is an interesting thing. The more you think about it, the less chance there is that it will occur. If you only have sex in order to come, you won’t be rewarded and you’ll constantly be disappointed. It’s true that the orgasm has to be learned, but it’s better to think about pleasure during intercourse and about the sexual act itself and not about how you have to reach an orgasm, or even worse, why you didn’t have one the last time and why you still can’t reach one.

Precisely planned sex isn’t always bad

Many couples claim they love spontaneity in sex and that routine and planned erotica ruins their passion. This isn’t always the right way of thinking. Planned sex can sometimes really make you hot, especially if you and your partner write naughty text messages to one another before the date, where you talk about the naughty desires you want to do when you’re together. You can also tackle foreplay systematically, so that you both know what’s in store. Even if you know what’s going to happen, the activity excites you because your partners know your body really well and know very well what to do to turn you on the most.

Stimulate your clitoris during intercourse

Because your partner will not be able to reach your clitoris with his hand in most cases during sex, you should do this yourself. Don’t be embarrassed and don’t think your partner will be insulted on account of this. He’ll enjoy it because he’ll see you’re enjoying it more and that you’re going to have an orgasm soon, which might not even happen otherwise. A man is even more turned on by the thought of you stimulating yourself during intercourse and just the penetration of the vagina is usually not enough for an orgasm. Be brave, the sole reason your clitoris is on your body is for you to play with it.

We got the inspiration for our advice from authoress Stephanie Dolgoff.