Darling, Change Your Sexual Technique Already!

8.06.2011 | By: A. B.

Don’t be surprised if the actions you repeat in bed don’t arouse her any more in time. Change your tune.

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1. Sign to change your sexual technique: She almost fell asleep during intercourse

Last night, you were passionately licking her clitoris and simultaneously stimulating her nipples, but today she’s not reacting as much as you expect. Has she become frigid, doesn’t she love you anymore, have you lost your sexual power, passion and convictiveness? The answer is a decisive no. It’s just that she doesn't like the same sexual technique every day. There’s nothing wrong with that. It just proves that she has many erogenous zones and that you have to handle her differently this time. Last night, you had wild and powerful anal intercourse. It was so wild and powerful that she even had an orgasm. Today she’s not presenting her behind to you and even tells you that she doesn’t like it and you should forget all about it. Has she become a frigid and conservative woman who’ll never let you take her anally again, has she grown tired of you, are you annoying her, didn’t you know how to handle her in the right way? The answer is a decisive no again. Last night, anal intercourse was the real deal, but today it simply isn’t. Today you have to do change your sexual technique into something new, something which will arouse her in a different way. So don’t be insulted if she rejects you when you suggest a certain sexual practice or move. Try to understand her, perform a different sexual technique and get to work on other erogenous zones.

2. Sign to change your sexual technique: She is very reserved

She was horny, hot, wild and insatiable last night, but today or in a few days, she’s calm, gentle, romantic and totally different. Does this mean that you can’t arouse her anymore and that the wild night was just an exception? Certainly not. This merely means that she’s in a different mood and that you have to respect this and you can’t get to work on her in the same way. Be careful of her sexual impulses, listen to her desires and longings. If she doesn’t want wild and crazy sex, give her something gentle and sensual. Do the same with penetration, where her desire for her favourite position should be considered. Women are different from men. That’s why you have to pay attention to them and carefully listen to their sexual desires. So don’t be angry or disappointed if you’re in for a totally different and calmer night, where there might not be any blowjobs, but you’ll only lick her crotch. Don’t think this is strange or wrong. If she doesn’t want to do something on a certain night, she doesn’t want it. That doesn’t mean she’ll never want it again. It simply means she doesn’t want to do it that night and she wants to enjoy doing something very gentle.

Don’t be boring and don't repeat yourself

Sexual intercourse is a versatile matter. That’s why it’s not good to keep repeating the same sexual techniques over and over again because it can get boring. Women are the best proof of that. The female body proves that you have to have enough imagination and experimentation and you have to make sure it’s not always the same. There are many erogenous zones and even more ways to turn her on. So don’t be surprised if your woman finds something boring in a while and if she’s not as turned on by it as before. This just shows you that she wants something new. This is where couples make the most mistakes. They are convinced that the decrease of sexual desire happens due to being together for so long. This is not true. Sex is always interesting if we make it so and if we work hard for it. So, dear guys, don’t worry if your partner isn’t aroused like you expected by something. Simply get to work on her in a different way.