Does Your Partner Have a Too Big Penis?

17.01.2010 | By: S. J.

Here we offer some practical advice on how to better accommodate a large and in your opinion a little too big penis in your sex life.

 

If the man's penis feels too big, the woman has to be fully aroused before the start of the penetration. (jlp)

If the man's penis feels too big, the woman has to be fully aroused before the start of the penetration. (jlp)


The size of the penis has become quite a modern day obsession among men. While many of them are concerned that theirs is too small, we also have instances of a too big penis. Of course everyone would prefer a middle of the road prick, but unfortunately the size of the penis is left to mother nature to decide. The trouble with a big penis is that women often feel pain during intercourse. But the good news is there is a way to solve this problem. First we have to determine whether it's the length or the circumference of the penis that is causing the woman pain. A penis which is too long can hit the neck of the uterus, while a thicker penis can cause the sensation that the vagina is being stretched too much and can even cause bacterial infections if it rubs up against her urinary tract. Let's examine guidelines for both of these problems concerning the size of the penis.


Ladies, big isn't always the best. (jlp)

Ladies, big isn't always the best. (jlp)


Are you sufficiently aroused?

When intercourse involves a too big penis, the arousal of the woman (which causes physical changes) is of key importance. A female body normally produces a natural lubricant, which is the reflection of how turned on she is. The increase in arousal also brings about the increase in the scope of the vagina. If you're used to intercourse with partners who have small or middle-sized penises, you were probably always able to start with the penetration before you were fully turned on. But when your partner is richly endowed, you need more time. The enjoyment of sex without pain has to do with both the physical as well as the psychological readiness and this is the reason the woman needs to be fully aroused before the penetration of the big penis. The additional stimulation of the clitoris or anything else which excites the woman can be a lot of fun and an effective way to turn you on both mentally and physically.


Lubricant may help.

Lubricant may help.


Use lubricant

Lubricant is a great way of making sex more comfortable and making everything more slippery. Although some women don't feel the need for lubricants because they are moist enough on their own, it's recommended to use them when engaging in intercourse involving a big penis. There's a wide range of choice and you can experiment and try out to see which one suits you the most.


You should use sex positions which allow the woman to control the depth of penetration.

You should use sex positions which allow the woman to control the depth of penetration.


Recommended sexual positions

Maybe those women who like to take it from behind will not be thrilled at this point, because this position, which enables deep penetration, also allows for greater pain. That is why doggy style isn't advisable. We recommend positions which enable women greater control over the situation and the penetrating angle and where there's also a high degree of mobility. The poses “woman on top” and the missionary position allow women to have greater control of the penetration and are more appropriate because you will not have to constantly concern yourself with whether a wrong move will cause pain or not.

Sexual aids for big penises

They truly exist and you can buy them in various sex shops. We are talking about rings made of rubber or a similar material which you place on the stem of the penis and thus limit the length with which you will penetrate her vagina during intercourse. Maybe it sounds a little ridiculous, but by using these aids you truly relax the sexual mood and eliminate all concerns that have to do with the penetration going too far.



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