Don’t Be Afraid of the Strap On Dildo

20.03.2010 | By: I. M.

Learn how to use a strap on dildo and experience unforgettable thrills offered by this indispensable erotic accessory.

A strap on dildo will definitely spice up your sex life. (jlp)

For her

“Darling, I don’t really feel like having sex right now.”

Unbelievable as this may sound, men sometimes don’t feel like having sex. Especially if they're just too tired to get it up, a strap on dildo seems the ideal solution for satisfying their sexually aroused partner. A man can easily and comfortably put a strap-on on his body by pushing his penis through a slot on the belt under the vibrator. Thus, a man can satisfy his partner in spite of any obstables and help her achieve a fantastic orgasm.

Many people would wonder why a woman doesn’t simply use a vibrator instead and why doesn't she "take care of herself" in this way. The answer is straight-forward. The use of a strap on dildo includes her partner in the act of her sexual gratification. She won’t only feel a vibrator, but also her lover's body, which will give her a feeling of having "real" sexual intercourse.

Men, don’t consider a strap-on a type of vibrator. Use it as your own penis and try different sexual positions. You can even offer your partner the strap on dildo for fellatio during sexual intercourse.

When a man doesn’t feel like having sex, a strap on dildo is a better solution than an ordinary vibrator.

"I came, but she didn’t."

Many couples believe that all sexual joys are over once a man comes. It’s true that when a man reaches an orgasm, you cannot expect him to have another sexual intercourse within five minutes. While some men still try to help their partners achieve an orgasm after they've reached it themselves, others lose all interest in sex after ejaculating. Of course you can wait until he feels sexual desire again, but why should your aroused body cool down if you can replace his penis with a strap-on? Your partner simply ties it to his body. Moreover, by using a strap on dildo, you two won’t have to burden yourselves with the possibility of premature ejaculation.

Help your partner achieve an orgasm, although you've already reached yours.

Double penetration without a third party

If you fantasise about double penetration, but you don’t want any additional people joining you in bed, a strap on dildo is just what you need to fulfil your desires. When your partner puts a strap-on on, you'll immediately have two penises in your bed – one on top of the other.

If you want to use the dildo for anal penetration and your partner’s penis for the vagina, it’s best if you offer yourself to him from the back. If you want it the other way around, you'll feel much more comfortable lying on your back. A strap-on usually comes with three different vibrators when you purchase it, so use the one that you find the most suitable for a specific sexual experience you want to achieve. Don't forget to apply some lubricant.

You can also use a strap-on to play with his anus.

Take a look at Lover's Guide and let it guide you through thick and thin. It will transform your sex life for ever.

For him

Play with his anus

If your man likes it when you play with his anus during sexual intercourse, you can perhaps try to satisfy him with a strap on dildo. Although most men don’t reveal their desire for anal stimulation, don’t feel awkward because of such fantasies. If both of you want to indulge in them, the experience will definitely be pleasant. This time, it's the woman's turn to tie a strap-on to the body. We suggest you use the thinnest vibrator and plenty of lubricant.

First, moisten his anus with saliva and stimulate him with your finger. Do this very slowly - give his anus enough time to get used to your finger. You can wear a condom on your finger.

Start stimulating him with the strap on dildo slowly and gently, and when he's completely turned on, carefully penetrate him. Don’t forget to pay attention to his penis. Stimulate it! Make sure your partner is constantly aroused, otherwise the strap-on won’t bring him the desired pleasure.