Experience the Joy of Mutual Masturbation

4.09.2010 | By: K. S.

When both partners experience the joy of mutual masturbation, they can gradually improve the intimacy in their relationship.

Exploring the joy of mutual masturbation can light a new spark of intimacy in a couple’s relationship. (Photoxpress)

The majority of people prefer to explore the joy of masturbation undisturbed in the intimacy of their bedrooms. But some people love to experience the joy of masturbation together with their partner, and manage to improve their intimacy at the same time. Experiencing the joy of mutual masturbation could be good for you too. Not only could you be able to experience a live show that you have dreamed about for quite some time, but you would also have the opportunity to learn something new from and about your partner. What is more, you could also teach your partner something as well. You can enjoy masturbating together whenever you want, sometimes, you could even do it as a sort of introduction into an all-night love-making feast. But exploring the joy of mutual masturbation may not be everybody’s cup of tea. If you’re tempted to crawl into bed with your partner and try it, you may consider taking the following steps.

When is the right moment for mutual masturbation?

Don’t force yourself into doing anything you’re not completely comfortable with.. Although indulging in mutual masturbation can be a wonderfully intimate and satisfying experience, it still is masturbation, a crucial part of your self-intimacy, where you’re able to let yourself go completely. Should you not be ready to explore the joy of mutual masturbation, you could be in for a marring experience if you force yourself into it anyway. Before you decide to have a go at it, you and your partner should have a long, honest talk. This talk doesn’t have to be embarrassing or strenuous at all. It should turn out quite the contrary. For example, you could tell each other about the time each of you first started masturbating, where you like to indulge in masturbation, and what do you really, really like to do to yourself while you’re at it. By talking to each other openly, you should be able to overcome your own taboos and inhibitions which you may have had about masturbation. Should you feel awkward about watching each other masturbate in the beginning, you can always close your eyes or think about a convenient blindfold.

Mutual masturbation may take some time to happen

Mutual masturbation can be undertaken in many different ways. The novices among you should start your journey by taking turns. While of one you is masturbating, the other can just watch. This can be very arousing and informative at the same time. You could learn a lot about your partner or about what he or she likes during masturbation just by watching. The orgasm of the partner masturbating first shall be the cue for the other to begin. While exploring the magic of mutual masturbation, you can go about checking out different positions and rooms. You could do it while sitting on a chair, making yourself comfortable in the living room, even while riding the washing machine. In short, you can do it anywhere and in anyway you wish to. After mastering the first few steps, you can begin with mutual masturbation. While doing so, you should be able to feel the sexual energy flowing even though you’re not touching one another at all. Give it a go and try to reach the point of orgasm together. This may be a more demanding task since you will have to harmonize and observe each other’s reactions quite a bit. Should you not wish to speak, you will have to focus on each other’s body language, through which you may be able to determine quite clearly how close your partner is to reaching an orgasm.

There are no boundaries, so let your imagination take flight!

If you think that to masturbate just means to play with yourself, we can assure you that there will be nothing wrong if you touch your partner while you're at it. Actually, you can touch, caress, fondle, or in any other way arouse each other during mutual masturbation. You could even take your partner’s hand and let it glide all over your body. What you can also do is to take your partner's hand and use it to pleasure yourself as well. In brief, there are no boundaries when it comes to mutual masturbation. If you want to spice up your experience a bit, then you could add an erotic toy to the mix. Mutual masturbation is namely a great way to possibly bring a vibrator or any other sexual accessory into your sexual life. After thoroughly enjoying and savoring everything that mutual masturbating has to offer and while you’re utterly relaxed, you could look each other in the eye and engage in warm, soft conversation. Looking each other in the eye right after an orgasm could make you feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but it can also turn into to a highly exciting and intensive experience. Should you say something naughty or reveal your deepest sexual fantasies to your partner, you could lead each other to the verge of another, magnificent mutual orgasm.