Feng Shui will help your relationship

Have you come to a point in the partnership where you do not know how to go forward and you feel trapped in a make-believe maze from which you see no escape? Learn about Feng Shui and face your partnership problems.

 

The harmony of energy flows in a partnership can be ascertained objectively with Chinese astrology (jlp)

 

Nowadays, there are many alternative ways to improve a partnership, but not many have any credibility, either because of unprofessional individuals or because the method has not been generally accepted yet. One such method is Feng Shui. Many people swear by it, while others see it as rubbish. Whichever side you are on... If you do not try it, you cannot be sure, right?

Feng Shui

The word itself stems from the original term taken from the Chinese letters HAM and YU. HAM means receiving energy from celestial bodies, YU is about the linking of Earth and the galaxy. According to the Chinese, man is the one through whom the energies of heaven and earth combine.

Feng Shui is ancient Chinese art developed 6,000 years ago to learn to live in harmony with the Earth. If we want good fortune and yin and yang balance (the male and female principle) in our homes, which brings happiness, health and abundance in all areas of life (including the partnership), we must follow the guidelines of this ancient science and art form. 

Trouble in a partnership

The latest studies show that problems occur mostly because the partners do not communicate (enough). In Feng Shui language, we would say that the energies of both partners are not in harmony.

A messy place, where things are scattered all round creates negative energy, according to Feng Shui. (jlp)

The harmony of energy flows in a partnership can be ascertained objectively with Chinese astrology, (Bazi Suanming – four pillars of destiny) with which we can also find a partner with compatible energy. This is good for our ego because we do not have to adapt and be open to new experiences,  but we are “forced” to start dealing with the subjects in life that we had ignored, pushed away and which hinder our development.

Three spaces: killers or preservers of the romantic mood

They say that a room is a reflection of a man’s soul, that what we carry inside us is projected outwards. Both views have a very big role when it comes to the success (or lack of it) of a partnership.

Kitchen

The way to a person’s heart is through their stomach. (jlp)

An old saying: The way to a person’s heart is through their stomach. Do you agree? What is better than tasting, experimenting and eating a candlelit meal together? The modern way of life and the pace connected to it, is pushing out the traditional and slow way of preparing food and is killing the life energy called qi, which is stored in food. Take time for yourselves end enjoy preparing a good, healthy meal.

Living room

This is the space that shows our relationship to the partnership most. So, make sure this place is clean and comfortable and do not put the television in the centre of the room. With a harmonious decoration of the living room, you will show your potential partner that you have made space only for him, physically and emotionally.

Bedroom 

Feng Shui is ancient Chinese art developed 6,000 years ago to learn to live in harmony with the Earth. (jlp)

Decorating the bedroom at the start of a relationship is not that important.  Later, we also see dirty curtains and bedding, along with the partner. So hygiene is important here as well, but we have to be especially careful that the bedroom gives us an incentive for action between the sheets, besides providing us with a bed to sleep in. A messy place, where things are scattered all round creates negative energy, according to Feng Shui. Or to put it differently: There is no room for love in a cluttered place filled with junk.

So, as an alternative to resolving partnership problems, would you use a technique performed since the Tang dynasty in China? It is surely worth a shot!

 

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