For Men: Every Sex Fail You Do In Bed

6.05.2010 | By: S. J.

We have already written about what women do not like during intercourse, but you can never know too much on the subject. So check what else constitutes a major sex fail.

Stop yourself before asking questions starting with "Can I?" (PhotoXpress)

Sex Fail #1: Being overly gentle

Being gentle is nice, but not when shagging like animals, so stop yourself before asking questions starting with “Can I?” Do not ask, just do it. If she does not like it, you will notice it soon enough. Besides, women expect a good lover to know the next step and know how to get her ready for it without any questions. Sometimes a daring look by which you show the girl to lose her clothes may be enough, or a provocative touch of her body which clearly shows your intentions. Of course, we still like it when you shower us with gentle caresses and kisses occasionally, but this alone is not enough. But you cannot go wrong with being gentle after the action is over. Women feel blissful at that point and a little gentleness will not go amiss.

Sex Fail #2: Baby, did you come?

Perhaps a man sees things differently, especially in one-nighters. But if you do not want a girl to leave your bedroom disappointed and do not want her to remember you as a lover she never wants to go back to, make sure your sex does not look like a pair of bunnies shagging. Instead of having sex, make love... What does this mean? Never forget you are doing it with a WOMAN, not a doll, so pay more attention to her during sex and leave her some control. Kiss her body, tell her she smells nice, be passionate. This does not mean that every sexual act has to be flawless, but you can show her that you are thinking about her pleasure as well, not just yours. Be sensual and show that you are a first-rate lover.

Sex Fail #3: Grumbling and talking during intercourse

Grumbling too loudly, as well as too quietly of course, can be very irritating to a woman. You are probably wondering what they want. They definitely do not want quiet, so choose a middle path to show your emotions for the girl, but do not be so loud that the neighbours will find out. Try to be innovative and do not always repeat the same sentences and use the same nicknames. If you are with a woman you do not know well, avoid vulgar expressions. She may be wild in bed and you feel she may like a bit of vulgarity, but you can quickly go wrong when you say “fuck me, bitch” or something to that effect.

Sex Fail #3: Missionary AGAIN?!

Women do not like monotonous intercourse. That's a clear sex fail. They love new and interesting things. This applies especially if you are in a serious relationship going on for several years, where the sex gets boring. Do not be afraid to experiment in such times. Try different positions and let your fantasies loose. The world market is full of erotic products which can breathe fresh life into your bedroom, so do not be ashamed to suggest to your darling to buy one of them. If you are sceptical about her erotic desires, talk about them over a glass of wine and it is very possible that you will be surprised at how willing she is to use various sexual accessories.