Four Ways of Stimulating the Clitoris

25.03.2010 | By: I. M.

Get familiar with your clitoris and find out which kind of stimulating it suits you most. Invite your partner to join you in your exploration.

 


Every woman has her own favorite way of stimulating the clitoris.

Every woman has her own favorite way of stimulating the clitoris.

Get to know your clitoris

Many women have problems accepting their private parts. However, in order to know exactly what kind of sexual stimulation suits you, you have to get familiar with your body, especially with the structure and functioning of your intimate parts. Find the clitoris at the top of your labia minora. If you slide down your pubis with your fingers, moving towards your clitoris, and if you rub the latter up and down, you will feel its stem as a sort of cord that slips under your fingers. Even though the stem is less sensitive than the head of the clitoris, it can still provide a lot of pleasure. The head of the clitoris is covered with a kind of hood. You can stimulate yourself by performing circular movements forwards and backwards or by seizing the head with two of your fingers and pushing it against labia minora, applying short movements along it. Your movements can be light and gentle or a bit more intense. Find out what suits you most. If you like more than one way of stimulating the clitoris, so much the better. Because you can stimulate the clitoris with one hand, you can touch other body parts with your free hand. Once you get tired of one type of caressing, or in case the stimulation becomes unpleasant, tackle other parts of the clitoris.

To help you: the clitoris of many a woman is supposed to be most sensitive to stimulation in the upper left part of the head of the clitoris. This spot promises orgasms.

Stimulation with both hands

For more pleasure, you can try to stimulate your clitoris with your both hands. Place the fingers of both of your hands on both sides of the clitoris and rub it up and down or use circular movements. With the middle finger and the index finger of one hand you can hold the clitoris in place, while you use the fingers of your other hand to stimulate its head and its root. The pressure should be light and we advise you to apply some lubricant, (baby) body oil or a bit of saliva so that your sliding won't be unpleasant. The stimulation will be even more gratifying if you push away the female foreskin and thus reveal the head of the clitoris with the hand with which you're holding it. Some women like to expose the clitoris to stimulation by moving apart labia minora with the fingers of their both hands and stimulating its thus exposed head with a single finger.

Stimulation with one hand

Many women find the stimulation of their genitals with one hand most pleasing when they put asunder their vulva and place the whole hand upon it, where their middle finger stimulates the entrance into the vagina and the upper part of their hand rubs against the clitoris. In this way, they are able to feel the stimulation across the entire surface of their genitals and the feeling is very intense. A woman can achieve a lot of pleasure also by seizing the clitoris with a thumb and the index finger and by ''squashing'' it between her fingers. This looks as though she wanted to fold tobacco into a cigarette. A great majority of women swear by simple circular movements on the head of the clitoris. Some like a finger vibrating across their clitoris.

Vibrator and water

Vibrator is perfect for experimenting if you haven't reached orgasm yet or if you rarely reach it. Why is it so perfect? Because you can set the speed and the intensity of stimulation that you like best. You can lean it on your clitoris or you can use a small vibrator that you put on your finger.

You can reach similarly strong orgasms with the help of water, should this be a jet from a shower head or from a tap or a bidet. Don't be embarrassed and indulge in pleasures that will easily take you to an unforgettable orgasm. Be careful - the bathroom can soon become your favorite part of the apartment.

Read more about stimulating the clitoris in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.



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