Has Your Intercourse Turned into a Routine? Strike Back and Turn Intercourse into a Routine!

Who said that banging can be interesting only if it is spontaneous?

When the pace of life isn't on our side, we have to strike back with some planning in bedroom as well. (Photoxpress)

The solution always depends on the problem. A lot of couples have a problem because they are used to spontaneous sexuality, which means that they do it only when they really want it. If they do not feel like it in a certain period, they always know they can shag whenever they want to. When there are so many responsibilities and chores in life, the attitude to sexuality must also change accordingly. Sexuality must become planned. We cannot afford to hope to find time for spontaneous intercourse. In such a tight schedule of modern man, sexuality is just one more item on our agenda that we have to be reminded of. Some people, especially women, see this as an unbridgeable obstacle which can bring about an end to their sexual life.

Time for sex and a desire for it will not pop up out of nowhere. (Photoxpress)

But we must learn to adjust to the way life leads us. Planned sexuality can be just as good as unplanned. We just have to get rid of the awkward feeling that accompanies “scheduled” sexuality. Many people are afraid of routine. But I bet that spontaneous sexuality is less versatile than one that is planned. "Missionary position on Friday morning. Position 69 on Saturday after lunch. A quickie under the shower on Sunday at 11.30. I will be too tired on Monday evening. I will work on her clitoris on Tuesday morning before work ..."

Let's take sex life in our hands. (Photoxpress)

Synchronize this plan with your partner and define the wishes according to your own desires. If appointing the time exactly is problematic, leave the details of the situation to your imagination. Some really like it when they know what awaits them, so they can look forward to good sex. Even though it is planned, it is still sex. This kind of planning requires cooperation of both partners and works only when the relationship is solid. If there is tension, misunderstandings, competition, and reproaching in the relationship, then sex is off, planned or unplanned. Differences of opinion must be resolved first if we want planned intercourse to be effective. Otherwise, the time could be spent to resolve conflicts, for talking, gentleness and attention. It is vital to plan to spend time with our partners and not think that time will simply appear out of nowhere. A two week vacation cannot save a whole year of sexual drought.