Have You Already Tried Spanking during Intercourse?

It’s no secret that many people fantasize about being spanked or spanking their partners.

Why is spanking erotic?

Many men and women can be really turned on during spanking. The biggest aphrodisiac of spanking isn’t pain, but the feeling of submission and vulnerability. This applies particularly to women. Men like the feeling of control when they’re spanking their naughty girl. If they are the ones who need to be punished, it’s about being subjugated to a woman again and sometimes even a slight case of sexual infantilism. Spanking is a very good form of foreplay because the male hand, which is warming her buttocks, is letting the woman know that she’s in for sexual pleasure. But be careful not to exaggerate with the intensity of the striking, at least not at the beginning.

Crime and punishment

You can use spanking as foreplay when your partner has been bad. You can spice up the atmosphere with role-playing. So if your partner has been naughty, he/she has to make it up to you so that you can forgive the mistake. Because the punishment has to teach them a lesson, think about it, while he/she waits impatiently for you to decide their fate. Order your partner to take the clothes off. Order him/her to play with themselves or crawl on the floor, while you consider the appropriate punishment. Naturally, let them know that their punishment will be even greater if they don’t do what they’re told.

Punish them with spanking

Order your partner to bend over your knee. If he/she does this with clothes on the bottom, use this as an excuse to make the punishment greater and say that they deserve to be hit more times for this mistake. Don’t be compassionate and kind when spanking, but put on a face of a stern teacher, uncompromising master, decisive boss or demanding mistress. You can also remind your partner how bad he/she has been and demand an apology and a promise that this mistake will never happen again. Don’t humiliate your partner with your words, but still let them know that the spanking was justified.

''Spank me harder''

You should naturally start with gentle spanking. Even though spanking the naked bottom is sexiest, it’s also most painful. If you want to increase your gentle spanking and hit harder, do it carefully and with feeling. The hand should not fall on the back or the kidneys because that would really cause your partner a lot of pain. Make sure your partner is sexually aroused if you hit harder. You can do this by massaging the clitoris/penis while spanking. Tell your partner in advance that stronger blows will follow because they were so naughty that she/he deserves to be hit harder. If they agree, slowly increase the intensity of spanking, but caress or massage the buttock after each blow to decrease the pain and in order for the heat to be better distributed on the buttock and not gathered on one spot. You can also count blows during spanking. This will make the game even more interesting.

Spanking accessories

Manufacturers of sexual accessories are well aware of human fantasies, so they offer many accessories for this sexy and naughty fetish. The most common items are naturally whips. Whips differ from one another in the top part. Some are short with a band on top and others are long with one band or several bands (or ropes) on top. Short whips with a round band are the least painful, while you can create stronger and more burning whip cracks with other whips. You can also spice up the spanking by rummaging in the closet at home, where you’ll definitely find an appropriate belt for your erotic game. You can also tie up or bind your partners during spanking. In case none of the things we mentioned feel good to you, you still have your hand. Perhaps your partners will be naughty today.

Read more about this and other kinds of BDSM games in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.