How Can You Make Her Totally Hot?

21.12.2011 | By: Alex F.

With flattery, of course. Don’t miss some of the basic rules and tips on how to make her hot.

Make her totally hot just by paying her a lot of compliments. (PhotoXpress)

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Make her totally hot #1: Flattery can be a dangerous game

Everyone likes being flattered. They say women like it when you pile compliments on – a couple times a day, every day. You can’t pay her only one compliment – the essence is in repetition. It doesn’t help if you say: ''Of course your eyes are beautiful, didn’t I tell you this last week?'' But overdoing it can have a boomerang effect and it twists around your neck and doesn’t let go easily.

Excessive praise of a woman puts her on a pedestal from where she has the chance to control you. We could say that she begins taking advantage (whether intentionally or spontaneously) of you in a wicked way because she turns you into her emotional slave. But sometimes the role of a martyr feels good. For the time being let’s stick to the fact that you have to flatter her.

Make her totally hot #2: Mention her hidden attributes

Don’t compliment the things that are obviously her best features. If she has fantastic breasts, for example, you don’t have to emphasize it all the time. She knows you like them – you have buried your head in them so many times that she has stopped counting. If you compliment a thing because of which she lacks confidence, like her charming small feet (that she thinks are too big), she will start purring. Even an insult can be a compliment if you choose the right words.

Make her totally hot #3: Notice her new haircut

If she got a haircut and put some new clothes on, don’t forget to show that you have noticed. If you remain quiet, you will not only lose the chance to pay her a compliment, but you will also upset her because she will assume you don't like it.

Make her totally hot #4: Learn to love her personality

Compliment her personality and behavior for even greater pleasure. She will simply melt if you tell her how elegant her movements are and how sensual her voice is. It’s more imaginative than grabbing her and complimenting on her firm behind. She wants to know you appreciate her and not only feast your eyes on her. Compliment her great sense of humor, communication skills or the fact that she is a really good listener. Women like to communicate, so acknowledging the fact that she has great communication skills will mean you hit the nail on the head.

Make her totally hot #5: Listen to her

Listening is the most honest form of flattery. Follow her thoughts and feelings carefully and show you’re really interested in her experiences – ask and listen. Make her think that she can teach you something new every day. Actually, if you can’t learn something new about your babe every day, does your relationship even have a point?

Make her totally hot #6: Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated!

You can’t allow her to turn you into something you’re not, but still try to be a person she wants to be with. This is the best type of flattery because it lets her know that you respect her opinion and that she means something to you. Read the introductory lines again and don’t forget that it doesn’t cost you anything if you flatter her. But if you flatter her too much, she will become in charge and able to control you.