How to Convince Her to Watch Porn Movies with You?

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18.01.2010 | By: T. B.

Watching porn together can be great fun and very sexy, of course. How can you convince your partner to join you? All you need is good timing, the right approach and the right movie.

 

Watching pornos can be pleasant entertainment which may lead to intercourse (jlp)
Watching pornos can be pleasant entertainment which may lead to intercourse (jlp)

 

Why is it that women don't want to watch porn with their partners?


If we want to convince women to watch porn movies with us, we must first find out why most women don't like porn.


The most common reason is that most porn movies are made for men. Just think about it: in an average porn movie, a woman goes after the man’s sexual organ with her mouth first, then he hits her ass a few times for foreplay and the woman is all ready for moaning and wild humping (we hope you know that in reality things aren't that easy). To top it off, usually we only see the woman, while we only see the male sexual organ. Unfortunately, most women are not turned on by such porn. Not only are they not turned on, they have a hard time understanding what you see in them. Needless to mention, most women are also worried that they will not live up to your expectations, if you watch porn. Can they ever truly satisfy you with their real(istic) bodies and their normal abilities?

 

She most probably does not like the same pornos as you (jlp)
She most probably does not like the same pornos as you (jlp)

 

Another pretty strong factor is the upbringing and potentially the religious beliefs. It's important to discover the reasons for her reservations and arrive together at the conclusion that these convictions are not that much her own as she might have thought.

 

Talk her into watching porn with you


Like with many other things, it all starts with conversation – with expressing your opinions and views. You may even discover that the problem isn't that she doesn't like porn movies, but that she just doesn't like the ones you watch.

It may occur that your partner surprises you and tells you that she actually really enjoys watching porn and that ever since she was a teenager she could hardly wait for the racy shows to start at midnight, so she could masturbate along. In this case, there should be no real problem for you to watch porn movies together. You can even suggest you make one of your own.

If you're not so lucky and your partner believes that all the people involved in the porn industry should be sent to prison, then it's best to drop the subject because you will most likely not convince her.

 

Watch a porno of her choice together (jlp)
Watch a porno of her choice together (jlp)

 

Your strategy


If you sense that there is a blue light at the end of the tunnel, try to convert her. It's best if you just try watching a porn movie together. Pick one that reflects a realistic image of the sexual act, contains a lot of female foreplay, a lot of sensuality and erotic ambient.

Another thing that goes together with watching porn is going to an erotic shop or exploring sexuality together on the internet. For a start, listen to her wishes. After watching a porn movie, you can talk about what you liked. Be careful when voicing your opinion. Try to contain your enthusiasm about what you saw, as it may trigger all kinds of defensive mechanisms in her.

 

A pretty strong presence and a big factor is the upbringing and possible religious beliefs (jlp)
A pretty strong presence and a big factor is the upbringing and possible religious beliefs (jlp)



Watching porn has to be a pleasant experience and there's no sense in forcing it upon your lover. People have different desires and notions about what is fun or sexy. And that's just the way it should be.

 

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