How to deal with premature ejaculation?

17.09.2009 | By: Antonio B

You often finish to fast? Here are some very useful advice...

 
If you come too soon, do not forget to take care of your partner in some other way.
If you come too soon, do not forget to take care of your partner in some other way. (jlp)

Take breaks during the penetration

Many men make the most basic mistakes when it comes to premature orgasms. They simply come when they feel like coming. They do not stop, take a short break and continue again. They merely ejaculate the sperm when they feel like it. Logically, if everyone was like this, everyone would come very soon. So, what to do? If you feel like you are just about to come during intercourse, stop, take your penis out, wait a little and continue. Your partner will not be disappointed because this will stimulate and arouse her even more, especially if you do it with feeling and in such a way that you will be able to fool her into thinking you did this on purpose. She will therefore not think that you were about to come, but that you did this move to stimulate her and prolong her pleasure.


A premature orgasm becomes a problem if the man starts making stupid and childish excuses.
A premature orgasm becomes a problem if the man starts making stupid and childish excuses. (jlp)

Excuses will make it even worse

Men often mess up after a premature orgasm by making up stupid excuses. They say stuff like they were too aroused, that they got carried away, that this never happens to them, that they came so fast because the woman they did it with was so beautiful and attractive. Believe us, these excuses will only make your partner madder, especially if she is a more mature and experienced woman who knows what the deal is. All these sentences are pointless because they cannot change the fact that you messed up and that your lady was left unsatisfied. If premature ejaculation occurs, do not make it worse by using words. Instead, think about how you can continue and take care of your woman in some other way, like with your fingers or your tongue.

 
You can satisfy your woman with your tongue and your hands as well.
You can satisfy your woman with your tongue and your hands as well. (jlp)

If the penis fails, let the tongue do the work

The biggest mistake is not that you came too soon. The biggest mistake is forgetting your partner’s satisfaction. In other words, a woman will never be disappointed if you focus on her in some other way after your premature orgasm and get her to her climax as well. Do not be egocentric. Work on her with your tongue and make her come. Be fair and do not watch out only for your own pleasure. You may be bothered by the fact that you had already come and that a lot of the passion is gone. But do not worry, if you really make an effort and show that you care, she will not make a fuss and will go along with whatever you are doing. If you do not feel like licking, continue with your fingers. It is even better if you do both because she will definitely miss the feeling of fullness in her vagina after the intercourse.

 
Do not be selfish and give her a treat even after your orgasm.
Do not be selfish and give her a treat even after your orgasm.

If premature ejaculation is a frequent occurrence, use accessories

If you are a man who often has problems holding back his orgasm, do not be embarrassed to use accessories, which will successfully replace your penis once it burns out or becomes tired. We suggest a so-called strap-on, an artificial penis that you place around your hips and use it as an excellent substitute for the real thing. In such cases, it might be best to put a strap-on on at the start of the intercourse because you can exchange it with your penis. Use your penis a bit, then the strap-on and success is guaranteed. You will also not have major problems holding back your orgasm. We know this might hurt your male ego, but we still advise you to give it a go and take advantage of a great opportunity to satisfy the sexual appetites of your partner. And is the male ego not more bruised if a woman does not come than if you use an accessory?

 
Your lady will be even more dissatisfied if you are confused and grouchy after your premature orgasm.
Your lady will be even more dissatisfied if you are confused and grouchy after your premature orgasm.

Anyway, premature ejaculation is not as big a problem as many men, who even avoid intercourse because of it, imagine. Especially if you are not selfish after your orgasm and get to work on your lady in a different way. Let us not forget that panic will cause an even worse effect on your partner than your childish excuses. With this we mean whining, confusion and even becoming sad. A real man can take charge even after making a mistake.

 

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