How to Lick Her Clitoris Really Good?

12.12.2010 | By: T. P.

We give you some advice on how to be the best lover in the world when it comes to fondling the clitoris.

 

 

Lick her clitoris until she reaches an orgasm. (Photoxpress)

Lick her clitoris until she reaches an orgasm. (Photoxpress)

 

 

You can find more advice on oral stimulation in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

 

Arousal

Arousal is vital in intercourse. Arousal stems from expectation and expectation is handled easiest if we are in for something new. So, it is best to focus on her body in different ways each time, set a different pace, sometimes start with a kiss, sometimes with the soles of the feet, other times with the breasts or the belly button. Because we are discussing oral pleasure, our journey leads us to the spread legs of our girl and the beautiful sight of the unique treasure she hides between her legs. If she is shy, you are going to have to get her legs apart, but you will not be able to do this by force. You have to push the right buttons and the legs will spread on their own. The goal of the cunnilingus foreplay is that she wants to be touched so badly that her labia opens up on their own and the clitoris comes out of its own accord as well. Caress the inner side of her thighs, play with her pubic hair (if it is there), lick the labia majora, use your warm breath to get to work on the clitoris area and continue by fondling everything else. Always moisten the tip of your tongue before touching anything. Your fingers should be moist as well, or you can “borrow” some of her ointment or use some of your own saliva. If her juices began flowing, then it is time for the next step.

Deep moaning

Our goal is to get her to moan deeply when the tongue tackles the whole surface of the clitoris for the first time. This is delicate work, where fingers and the tongue are combined. Now she is ready for you to get down to the fat and meaty outer labia and the soft gentle inner ones. Circle the vagina on its circumference and check if the vagina has opened up at all when you get to its entrance. Tickle it a bit and then head straight for the clitoris, which should be visible by now underneath its protective roof. But just before touching it, you go around it by accident, suck on the labia a bit, bite her thigh  and before she is able to scream, place your tongue on the tip of the clitoris. Now she will be expecting a big meaty lick of her pleasure button, but you gently put two fingers inside her vagina (only if she is used to such things and if you had found out earlier with your tongue that she is ready). Circle the clitoris with your tongue and on the top part, where it is still covered with skin, press down a little, then go to work on the other meaty parts of her beautiful vagina again and keep poking her with your fingers. Now, quickly remove the fingers and leave only the tips of the fingers inside the vagina. Place your other hand on the lower part of her stomach, just above the vagina and gently stretch the skin upward, towards the bellybutton. Thus, you will stretch the clitoris a bit and increase the pleasure that will come later. At the same time you are stretching the skin, manoeuvre to the clitoris surreptitiously and the decisive moment is here. The fingers are waiting underneath the open vagina, there is hardly any space between the tongue and the clitoris, the tight skin makes her anxious. Wait a moment, wait until she realizes that something big is about to happen and then slowly embrace her clitoris with your lips and create a miniature vacuum. Sustain the vacuum and slowly poke her all the way with your fingers. Again, create a moment of silence and then solemnly and with your most carnal feeling gently lick her clitoris for the first time.  Strongly, but softly, fully and with the whole surface of your tongue. A deep groan of relief will reward your work. Aaaahhh.....

Finish the job

Now you have to keep bringing up the intensity of the sensations. Maintain the vacuum and keep the skin tight. Be gentle and slow with your fingers. Most of all, keep stroking her upper wall, the one on the side of the stomach, as if you were trying to combine your tongue and fingers. If you know that your girl does not like direct stimulation of the clitoris, gently circle around it with your tongue. If she likes intense stimulation though, do not let her down. Adjust the movements of your tongue to the movements of her body and her breathing. You will notice her legs shaking and her pelvis gently moving. These are all good signs. Despite the vacuum, keep the area of the clitoris well moistened. Do not be frightened if the clitoris becomes smaller all of a sudden. This is a good sign that you are on the right track. Increase the vacuum and the intensity and sooner or later she will bury her crotch into your mouth herself. Keep contact and maintain the vacuum at all cost and get her to her orgasm, which might be pretty wild. Do not try to restrain her body, let it toss about and curl up. When you feel her orgasm starting, do not stop immediately. Suddenly, there comes the point when you must stop right away, but it is hard to figure out when, it takes a lot of practice. If you pay attention to her, you will surely succeed. Go back up to her head, embrace her, stroke her hair and show her that you really love her. She will not forget this any time soon ...

 

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