How to Prevent Premature Ejaculation?

Many men cannot come to terms with premature ejaculation. We have found some solutions which will excite your partner as well.

Prevent premature ejaculation by masturbating before a date

Many guys come shining through in the so-called second round, when they are definitely more endurable than in the first. This of course means that the first round happened before the date. They masturbate and are than able to last longer with their girl and really show their good side. The first round can also be shorter intercourse and is a promise for the next one, which will undoubtedly be longer. So, the guys who have problems with 'coming too quickly' or premature ejaculation should masturbate before the date, or simply explain to the girl that they will do better in round two and that the first one was just an introduction to the real thing. The only problem with masturbating previously might be in not wanting to have relations, so be careful and do what suits you the most. Each man knows his own body best, so he knows what is most suitable for it and what his libido is like.

Stop during intercourse and think about something completely different

When there is penetration and you feel like you are about to come, stop and do not allow this to happen. If necessary, pull the penis out, push your thumb on the head and stop the rush of sperm. Then continue and if necessary stop again. This is better than finishing and forgetting about your partner’s orgasm. If it gets difficult, start thinking about something else, like football. You definitely will not come thinking about that and the intercourse will also last longer. Just be careful not to let your mind wander because the opposite of what you want may happen and the erection can be gone. It also helps to switch positions. Pick the one where you have more control than the woman. This means that you will be able to set the pace and the way the intercourse goes. This is yet another way to prolong intercourse and prevent a premature ejaculation.

When you are resting, do not forget about your partner

No woman will mind if you keep stopping and will take care of her in some other way, like with your fingers or tongue. No woman will get upset if you stimulate her in other ways and rest with your penis for a while. This is of key importance. This is where most men make a mistake. They come too quickly and then they are so miserable and confused that they forget about the woman as well. And even if you do come too quickly, do not worry and keep stimulating your girl. You can also use vibrators or beads. Do not give up and finish your job. Your partner will be grateful and she will never get mad if you finish too soon. If you are aware that you are too aroused, get her to an orgasm with your tongue, then go at it with your penis and go crazy. There will be nothing wrong if you come in one second, seeing as she is already satisfied.

Do not worry about her expectations

Men also get tired by the idea that women expect sexual machines in bed which will function three hours at one go. This is of course not true. A woman is satisfied if she finds out the man loves her and is devoted to her during intercourse. That is why she will not be upset if the man comes too quickly because she knows she will be pleasured in some other way. Women simply need more attention to reach an orgasm and therefore it is most important that they get the attention and not what kind of attention it is. If you will be worried about it, you will come even sooner. Do everything you can to last longer. If it does not work, use other methods. Do not worry, your partner will understand. That is, if you love her and are not only interested in your own pleasure.

Read more about premature ejaculation in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.