How to Tame a Womaniser?

22.06.2011 | By: Z. J.

He’s the perfect man! He only has one tiny mistake ... He loves all women. How to keep him for a little bit longer?

A womaniser will always stay a womaniser! (PhotoXpress)

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You can’t change him... Do you still want to try?

There’s no use talking about how to get him because he’ll get you first. He’ll be able to create a safe and relaxed atmosphere with the right words at the right time, he’ll pay attention to the fluctuations of your emotions and he’ll be perfect in every way, so he’ll be very hard to resist. If you see a womaniser in him and you’re not bothered by the idea of sharing him with countless other women, go for him all the way. But don’t think that you can change him. He’ll eventually try to present his need for new stimuli in the form of different female bodies as your problem, especially if you don’t agree with what he’s doing.

Return to the time of female virtuousness

In the old days, before the sexual revolution, women diligently protected their “honor” – this means that they didn’t easily give up their virginity. Nowadays women can admit to themselves that they want intercourse right away and many modern men believe that an adventure can also turn into a serious relationship, which means that they also respect women who are willing to go to bed with them right away. And why not – this only tells them how desirable they are and how much their potential partner likes to have intercourse.

Once womanisers get what they were looking for, they’re no longer interested in you. So stall with sexual relations, even though you’re ready to go already on the first meeting. Flirt subtly and remain mysterious, but also let him know he turns you on and that you want him, or he might lose interest otherwise. You have to create such circumstances that it will always seem like a coincidence that you can’t “go all the way” with him.

Intrigue his brain

Take the conversation and activity away from the area of his basic instinct. Talk to him about the things he’s really interested in (he is probably interested in other things than just women) – music, sports, his hobbies.

Get him into your circle

Introduce him to your friends, brother or sister. Make him feel like he’s a part of your life. He might see you as something more than a piece of meat. But this might not necessarily detract him from wanting fresh meat.

Don’t be in a subordinate position

A womaniser is used to women succumbing to his charms and when he says: “jump”, they ask him “How high?” Let him know you’re not so easy to control. They like to choose younger and more insecure women as their “prey” because it takes less effort with them and success is virtually guaranteed. Have your own life and make the womaniser aware of this. It will give your personality greater value and add mysteriousness to your character. It’s also important to be like this because you’ll need a safe haven after contact with a womaniser.

Patience is a virtue

It’s possible that his eyes will start wandering already after spending a short amount of time with you. Ignore his radar eyes nonchalantly. This shows you’re confident and shows the futility of his actions. After spending more time with you, he’ll probably start openly flirting with the waitress, neighbour and perhaps even your sister. If you still think it’s worth persevering, keep repeating the above saying.

Redirecting attention

This piece of advice is actually quite daring and unethical because it’s about manipulating and changing a person. Redirect his attention away from the “hunt” to his gentler and nobler side (we still presume he has one). When he starts flirting like there’s no tomorrow, start talking about something that makes him feel vulnerable and makes him feel noble.

You can’t change a womaniser

Finally, we have to say that we don’t believe in changing other people. You can only change yourself. If you know that the man whom you find attractive is a womaniser and you still try to play, take responsibility for your actions. If you’re constantly attracted to womanisers, this isn’t just their problem, but mostly yours. What drives you in the arms of men who can’t give you what you want?