How to turn her on if she’s just had a baby

Has your partner just given birth and you don’t know how to get the action going again? Don’t overlook these useful tips!

 

 

Women who give birth need a lot of special care and tenderness. (PhotoXpress)

 

You can find more advice on Sex after childbirth in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.

 

Sex after childbirth: Be very gentle

You can, of course, forget about having sex in the first days after the birth. You partner aches all over and is tired from the exertion of labor. When the worst is over and the possibility of postpartum depression is excluded, we advise you to be extremely gentle and patient. You should kiss, hug and caress her as much and as often as you can. Invite her to have a bath with you, massage her and do other things to please her as a form of subtle foreplay.

Sex after childbirth: Encourage her to masturbate

Is she still isn’t in the right mood for sex, try convincing her to masturbate. She’ll remember and relive her pleasures, which she may have forgotten during the time of her pregnancy and after the birth. She knows her body best and masturbation is just the thing. If she doesn’t want to do it in front of you, make sure she can do it in privacy and peace, where she won’t be disturbed by the baby’s crying.

Sex after childbirth: Wake her senses with oral sex

In the weeks after labor oral sex is extremely suitable because, unlike penetration, it doesn’t cause any pain. So using your tongue all over her body will be perfect to awake her senses. She won’t be able resist this bliss, so be persistent and convince her to relax and enjoy. Even if she won’t return the pleasure at first, don’t give up and satisfy your need with masturbation, or accept her offer of a massage. Don’t force her into something that she doesn’t like because you will spoil the mood.

Sex after childbirth: Avoid the missionary position

Classic missionary position is out of the question in the days after childbirth, especially if the baby was born by cesarean. Your partner is in pain and this position could cause some complications. But don’t worry, there are at least ten other positions to enjoy in. When it comes to the first postnatal penetration, be extremely gentle and careful- the vagina is still a bit sleepy and sensitive. Listen to your partner’s wishes and do only what she likes.

 

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