Is He Cheating? Intercourse Reveals Everything!

Even though people are capable of lying and deceiving, there are some simple ways of finding out the concealed truth.

Things change when someone cheats on the partner. We don’t have to be detectives to notice certain changes in a relationship when a third person is involved. It is believed that men do it much more often than women, but the theory is wrong. Women do it as well, perhaps even more so than men. Many researches show that the only difference between men and women in this aspect is that women know how to hide the cheating better. What are the signs that show very clearly in bed that someone is cheating and being dishonest? Read about it in the following text.

Being absent minded during intercourse

Many couples can come to a point where intercourse becomes less important, especially if it isn’t constantly full of passion, love, imagination and lust. The third person robs the couple of these joys because one of them is living out these fantasies with someone else away from home. Except in the case of tiredness, being worried and burdened, avoiding the touches of your partner, lack of eye contact and absentmindedness during intercourse are all bad signs.

When a man ignores sexy surprises

If your partner used to be excited by every new thing on your body and now he/she is indifferent about it, or doesn’t even notice it, this is definitely a cause for unpleasant feelings and doubts. Every woman naturally loves to have a great intimate hairstyle if she knows her partner will give her many passionate compliments. Every woman wants to feel wanted and sexy, so buying new seductive lingerie is not rare. When a partner doesn’t even flinch at this and becomes immune to all these sweet little surprises, something is definitely wrong.

His pubic area

Many men still claim that they prefer keeping their pubic hair natural, saying that they’re not women. Most of them would consider changing that if a really passionate woman wanted them to do it. Why? Because they know what the change will accomplish. Both men and the women asking them to do it are aware that the change in the intimate hairdo will be rewarded. That’s all fine and dandy. But the problem arises when a man shows his changed intimate hairdo to a woman who never wanted him to do this. The explanations that the “smooth surprise” is for her is always available. But will his lady keep falling for this trick?

Excuse after excuse

Cheating may cause a couple to have less intercourse. When the intercourse becomes just a fading memory, the time is right to investigate what’s really going on. There can be many reasons for the lack of intercourse, so jumping to conclusions would be premature. It can become suspicious only when, for example, you have the house and the days all to yourselves every nice, relaxed, trouble-free weekend and your partner always gives you a million excuses instead of having passionate intercourse which would make up for all you’ve lost.

Condoms

What would you think if you didn’t use condoms as contraception during intercourse with your partner, but you found them in his jacket pocket or his wallet? The situation would undoubtedly seem very strange and suspicious. There’s always a chance he got them as a gift from a friend, or on the street as promotional giveaway, but there might be more to it. Something like another person.

Things are naturally not always what they seem and there’s no real recipe to uncover the things that want to remain hidden. The best way is to establish an open dialogue with your partner and talk honestly about what is going on.

You can find more about cheating in the Encyclopedia of Sexuality.