It’s time for a special sexual treat!

Watch a porn movie as an introduction into hot sex this time. You have no idea how much this can spice up your love life...

 

You can also get ideas on how to spice up your sexual life from porn movies. (jlp)

 

The most common arguments of people against the porn industry are that it supposedly takes advantage of women and turns them into objects of male sexual desire. There’s no denying that the adult industry, just like any other type of business, also has its fair share of exploitation, but you can’t generalise this. This myth was also shattered by the famous porn actress Ovidie in her book Porno Manifesto, where she explains some common generalisations like: porn actresses are uneducated, they’re forced into their labour, they have no control over their own bodies, they don’t enjoy their work and stuff like that. Ovidie, a philosopher by education, is living proof that you can’t believe everything. If some want to portray pornography as the biggest evil of our age, where only asocial people masturbate because they’re not capable of getting a partner made out of flesh and blood, we can also look at it from another angle. We can see it as something which can make good sex with a partner even better.

 

Pornography can light the fire in the bedroom.

Men like to watch sex

 

Men are already raised on pornography, ever since secretly watching their first porn movies with their friends, when the parents are at work and all the way until later unburdened consummation of this adult movie genre. They usually don’t feel much shame when watching buxom girls and stallions with big cocks who have sex in all possible ways because real men watch porn. And there’s nothing wrong with that. On the other hand, women are more reserved when it comes to sex industry products. Sexy lingerie is okay because they’re actually buying it for his pleasure, but when it comes to erotic accessories and porn movies, it’s much different. It often happens that the man secretly watches porn movies, while his girlfriend tells her friends that her man isn’t like the others. Oh no, he doesn’t watch that. She’s naturally wrong because many surveys have shown that men simply like watching sex in all shapes and sizes and the exceptions only prove the rule. Why should women blush at the mention of pornography if they can use it to enrich their sexual life?

 

Don’t be appalled if your partner suggests you watch a porn movie together. (jlp)

Choose a porn movie that’s suitable for both

 

First you have to lose the shame. There’s nothing shameful if you watch a good porn movie with your partner and if this turns you on. When you deal with this and you find out that you may want to try something new in bed, hint at this to your partner and he’ll certainly be happy due to your initiative. Then you can decide together what kind of porn to watch. Just like any consumer goods, pornography also caters to different tastes. Some porn is almost completely without content, sex scenes are frequent and very graphic, other movies show sex scenes along with a loose story. Some women who are otherwise heterosexually oriented get aroused by lesbian sex, others think group sex or a ménage a trois are hot. In order to find out what turns you on, you’ll have to watch various movies, while beginners may even start with some softer erotica. Also allow your man to advise you because he probably has more experience than you. But if you’re simply not attracted to sex in ordinary porn movies, you can also watch female pornography, which is becoming quite a common deal. Here sex is shown from the female point of view and many stereotypical presentations of sex are shattered.

 

Tell one another your sexual fantasies. (jlp)

Sex should become an adventure

When you find a porn movie you want to see, it’s time for action. Surrender to your feelings and don’t rush. Only gently caress one another at first, but if and when the tingling between your legs gets stronger, you can also have intercourse. There should be no restrictions. It’s naturally not forbidden to occasionally glance at the television screen during intercourse and check what they’re doing in the virtual world. If you want to spice up the whole thing even more, you can agree to do the things that the couple in the movie is doing. This can naturally be very exciting because you’ll never know which position is next. Sex will thus become a real adventure and you need nothing more than to be prepared to experiment and a great deal of openness. And so watching pornography won’t be a forbidden practice anymore, but something you’ll be able to do together and which will make your sex life more exciting.

 

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