Ladies, Lose Your Virginity Painlessly!

8.06.2011 | By: Antonio B

When it comes to losing their virginity, many girls are afraid that they could feel excruciating pain or regret it all the way.

If you’re about to lose your virginity, tell the guy who’s about to deflower you that you are still a virgin! (PhotoXpress)

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Choose the appropriate surroundings to lose your virginity

The girls or young women of today most often lose their virginity on the backseat of a car, which means that this “monumental act” doesn’t have much to do with love anymore. This is actually not the smartest thing to do since the first sexual experience lives in your memory forever and memories of being squashed on a backseat definitely aren’t the most romantic. To make your first time as easy and pleasant as possible, choose the appropriate surroundings where both of you will feel safe, can make yourselves as comfortable as possible, and where you won’t have to rush things when the time comes to lose your virginity. You should pick a day when you'll be home all alone so there is no fear of anyone walking in on you. When the time comes to lose your virginity, there will be lots of “stage fright” and that can make things even more complicated as they already are. The pressure can make you so nervous that you can't have sex at all, especially when it’s your first time. If the place and time are right, the tension can be alleviated quite a bit, and there is a very good chance that all will go well. If you are about to lose your virginity to your steady boyfriend whom you love, it would be nice of him to create a romantic atmosphere.

Don't hide the fact that you're a virgin

When it comes to reasons to lose your virginity, the most common are love, your personal goal to lose your virginity or a curiosity which is very often spurned by an alcohol buzz. If you are about to lose your virginity to your steady and much loved boyfriend, the situation will definitely be much more pleasant because he will know that you are a virgin and you won’t have to feel awkward since you will be able to trust him. If you happen to lose your virginity quickly at a party or to someone whom you don’t know very well, it would still be better to tell that person that you are a virgin before you actually have sex. If he doesn’t know that you’re a virgin, he could be too rough and your first sexual experience could end on a painful note. So-called experts often warn girls and young ladies about not telling their first sexual partner that they are still virgins. If you haven’t used tampons yet, your vagina might be quite tight, which means that your first sexual partner should go about deflowering you even more gently and patiently as he may have initially intended.

Spread your thighs as much as possible

When it’s time to lose your virginity, you should spread your thighs as much as possible and put a pillow under your hips so your sexual partner will be able to penetrate you more easily. It’s also very advisable to use a lubricant so he can penetrate more smoothly. A good way to do it would be to spread your labia with one hand and lead your partner’s penis into the vagina with the other. And don’t let him thrust to roughly! When he inserts his penis into your vagina, push towards him gently so the muscles of your pelvic base won’t contract and prevent further penetration. After that, you should give in to the rhythm of his thrusts, while that rhythm shouldn’t be too fast. It won’t be wrong or unusual if you don’t experience an orgasm so don’t lose your mind over it. And one final word of advice: Before your partner penetrates you, he should take time and give you a really, really long session of foreplay so you can get aroused enough and will be really sure that it really is time to lose your virginity.