Ladies, Start Masturbating!

Masturbation isn’t just a replacement for sex, but a welcome way to sweeten your sex life a bit as well. Therefore, start masturbating!

Masturbation is linked to a plethora of stereotypes and prejudices, such as: 1) only weirdoes masturbate, 2) masturbation could make you go blind, 3) people who masturbate are incapable of having a relationship, 4) masturbation is illegal, 5) masturbation is filthy, and 6) masturbation is a sin, even more so if women are doing it. Now, if that isn’t a load of c***, especially when it comes to women enjoying a soothing masturbation? Leaving all that aside, it is a fact that women regularly start masturbating a little bit later then men. There are lots of reasons for this - some of them connected with the way girls are brought up, and others with the fact that men supposedly come “in touch” with their genitalia earlier in their life. Well, if they want to pee they have to grab a hold of their trouser snake, don’t they? The supposedly lower number of masturbating women could to some extent also be linked to the fact that many regard masturbation as shameful. Sadly, there are still too many women who think masturbation is just dirty. But the fact is that masturbation is healthy, relaxing, soothing, and it can be a lot of fun when two loving partners masturbate together, too. If you don't believe a word we're saying, then start masturbating and find out for yourself! Well, in order for you to really enjoy it, you should get “in touch” with your body first.

Can you masturbate?

This looks like a very simple question, at least for those women who don’t have any problems to lay back, relax, and start masturbating. On the other hand, many women are not familiar with their vagina and this affects their ability to masturbate. Not only that, it also inhibits their pleasure during sex a lot. How do you expect your partner to lead you to an orgasm if you’re not familiar with the delight that your clitoris can bring you and aren’t able to make yourself come on your own? The easiest way to get to know your clit better is by looking at it with the help of a hand mirror. Now, take a hold of one and explore your vagina, touch your vulva and get a close up look at your clitoris. The clitoris is located on the top, where the labia minora touch. It’s approximately the size of a pea. Before you start masturbating, it helps to explore your vagina with the help of an appropriate lubricant. To do so thoroughly, make sure that you have enough privacy and enough time to really get “in touch” with your private parts. In order for you to start masturbating and enjoy masturbating on a regular basis, you will have to find out for yourself what suits you best.

Try different positions and different ways

Some women like to lie on their back while masturbating; others even lie on their stomach. Some like to masturbate with their legs tightly together, while others like to spread their legs as much as they can. The most frequent female masturbation technique includes massaging and stimulating the clitoris with a finger or a dildo by moving it in circles or up and down. Some women don’t like to touch their clitoris directly when they start masturbating. In order to get it ready, start by focusing on the area around the clitoris first. Gently caress the entrance to the vagina, spread the labia, and let your fingers slide alongside the inner sides of your thighs. Keep going until you will feel aroused enough to start massaging your clitoris. You can complement the clitoris massage by touching your erogenous zones, such as your breasts your thighs, your belly… You can start masturbating while you’re in the shower too. There you can stimulate your clitoris with a stream of water and see if this would be something for you to do in the future as well. A stream of water can normally put enough pleasurable pressure on the clitoris for you to eventually experience an orgasm. But, be careful to avoid masturbating with electric or battery-powered appliances or devices, which are not intended for masturbation. They are not only unhygienic, but potentially harmful and dangerous as well.  Your goal is to have fun and enjoy yourself, not to end up in hospital. Now, with all that said, start masturbating and have fun with it!